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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Problem with my gf please i need help.

Trooprm31

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ok i have been going out with my gf for 3 weeks now. everything was going great untill this morning. she had a best friend visit from out of state and their like sisters basicly and we have been doing so great together starting out normal and so on, so this morning her friend leaves and goes back to her hometown and i text my gf marissa and she is very upset about this whole thing and shes acting all weird now like this conversation randomly could relate to a break up and i am really nervous and dont know what to do i have told her that i will be here for her and so on and she stopped texting me wont return any of my calls its a nightmare for me! she said she wants to be alone and she always said to me if she needed somebody to talk to to make her feel better it would be me and than she told me she was on the phone so obv it must be another guy or one of her girl friends or something i really dont know what to do, any advice please? thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trooprm31 said:
ok i have been going out with my gf for 3 weeks now. everything was going great untill this morning. she had a best friend visit from out of state and their like sisters basicly and we have been doing so great together starting out normal and so on, so this morning her friend leaves and goes back to her hometown and i text my gf marissa and she is very upset about this whole thing and shes acting all weird now like this conversation randomly could relate to a break up and i am really nervous and dont know what to do i have told her that i will be here for her and so on and she stopped texting me wont return any of my calls its a nightmare for me! she said she wants to be alone and she always said to me if she needed somebody to talk to to make her feel better it would be me and than she told me she was on the phone so obv it must be another guy or one of her girl friends or something i really dont know what to do, any advice please? thanks!

Ok. Pretty simple.

Step one: Don't freak out. Sit down and take a deep breath.
Step two: Call up your male friends.
Step three: Go hang out with them.
Step four: do not text her or call her this weekend.

If she want's to be left alone, leave her alone.

Don't text her anymore. Sometime next week, call her, and don't mention anything about her acting wierd.
 

Trooprm31

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secks said:
Ok. Pretty simple.

Step one: Don't freak out. Sit down and take a deep breath.
Step two: Call up your male friends.
Step three: Go hang out with them.
Step four: do not text her or call her this weekend.

If she want's to be left alone, leave her alone.

Don't text her anymore. Sometime next week, call her, and don't mention anything about her acting wierd.


ok i can do that. thanks.
 
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