"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Problem with my gf please i need help.

Trooprm31

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ok i have been going out with my gf for 3 weeks now. everything was going great untill this morning. she had a best friend visit from out of state and their like sisters basicly and we have been doing so great together starting out normal and so on, so this morning her friend leaves and goes back to her hometown and i text my gf marissa and she is very upset about this whole thing and shes acting all weird now like this conversation randomly could relate to a break up and i am really nervous and dont know what to do i have told her that i will be here for her and so on and she stopped texting me wont return any of my calls its a nightmare for me! she said she wants to be alone and she always said to me if she needed somebody to talk to to make her feel better it would be me and than she told me she was on the phone so obv it must be another guy or one of her girl friends or something i really dont know what to do, any advice please? thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Trooprm31 said:
ok i have been going out with my gf for 3 weeks now. everything was going great untill this morning. she had a best friend visit from out of state and their like sisters basicly and we have been doing so great together starting out normal and so on, so this morning her friend leaves and goes back to her hometown and i text my gf marissa and she is very upset about this whole thing and shes acting all weird now like this conversation randomly could relate to a break up and i am really nervous and dont know what to do i have told her that i will be here for her and so on and she stopped texting me wont return any of my calls its a nightmare for me! she said she wants to be alone and she always said to me if she needed somebody to talk to to make her feel better it would be me and than she told me she was on the phone so obv it must be another guy or one of her girl friends or something i really dont know what to do, any advice please? thanks!

Ok. Pretty simple.

Step one: Don't freak out. Sit down and take a deep breath.
Step two: Call up your male friends.
Step three: Go hang out with them.
Step four: do not text her or call her this weekend.

If she want's to be left alone, leave her alone.

Don't text her anymore. Sometime next week, call her, and don't mention anything about her acting wierd.
 

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secks said:
Ok. Pretty simple.

Step one: Don't freak out. Sit down and take a deep breath.
Step two: Call up your male friends.
Step three: Go hang out with them.
Step four: do not text her or call her this weekend.

If she want's to be left alone, leave her alone.

Don't text her anymore. Sometime next week, call her, and don't mention anything about her acting wierd.


ok i can do that. thanks.
 
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