"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Problem with my friends

Brian Griffin

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Hey guys. Well, since I've turned 21 there's kind of been a dilemma. Most of the guys I hang out with aren't 21 yet, and well I really haven't seen them much since I've been able to go to the bars. We were all really good friends and I feel like this is kind of hurting it. To them it seems like I'm ditching them, but I don't want to just "chill" anymore, I want to go clubbin' with some other people. What should I do/say to my buds?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Whose problem is it, yours or theirs? If they're your buds they won't hold you back. Besides they should be turning 21 relatively soon, right? If not, WTF are you doing hanging around children anyway! :nono:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Brian Griffin said:
They're about a year younger than me.
If they can't hang out on their own for that short amount of time; well, let's just say it's good that you want to get out on your own.
 

niceguydying

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Around here in the metro Atlanta area there are clubs where youngsters can get in, but of course they cannot drink. Look around your area and see if they exist. If you live in the sticks this may be a problem for you... oh wait a minute, for them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If your friends are turning 21 soon then hopefully they'll be joining you, besides they shouldn't tell you what to do.
 
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