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Problem with my "attitude" concerning sex

nan3109

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This girl I know told me that my "attitude" about sex was too forward. She makes out with me and everything but when I try to do more with her shes like "dont touch me."

I think shes playing games with me. She kisses me and kisses me then plays games saying im mean to her (cause i joke around sarcastically) and I know shes a former ho cause i did stuff with her long ago and it was much easier.

Whats up with this girl? Could my attitude be too straightforward concerning sex? What could i do to get around that>?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't bother with these ****-teases. Sounds like she is using a lot of ASD (Anti Slut Defense) to compensate for her former slutty reputation. Chances are she likes getting your attention though, so I'd quit giving her any. After a while it might start to bug her enough that she comes on strong.
 

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i agree completely, good idea
 

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yeah, get this. Now shes hounding me to hang out and even her friend wants to hang out with me now. But they're still saying they just wanna be friends when the one girls already **** teased me plenty. Should I believe her friend ? She's not coming onto me really (online talk to her, not on phone, but yes i do know them) other than call me "hey sexy" and ****.
 

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Well if you want, get together with her again sometime, but definitely make it sound like you have an unexpected opening in your busy schedule. If she pulls that c0ck-teasing game again, bounce her off to Nextville.
 

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Maybe she has herpes and her snatch reaks and she doesnt want you going near it?
 
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