"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Problem with her friend!

andreami

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Hi everyone guys,
So… i noticed this girl for the first time about one and half month ago in my school and using some excuses i get everyday closer and closer to her. I never gave her importance and she was always the first one to come and talk, except for the approach, you know. Three days ago I accidentally met her leaving school with her friends (3 other girls) and since she was continuing to give me IOIs i decided to accelerate. We had plenty of eye contact and also really much kino, we chill and have fun for an half hour and then i left them using a false time constraint. I always kept in my mind to act alpha, i never apologized o justified what i did, my words were concrete, i also involved in my discussions her friends and we made really soft irony on her a couple of times, and i felt i really conquered her and her friends. Before I left them i didn't ask for her number just because i was pretty abashed to do it in front of her friends, and i wanted only her one, not also those ones of her friends. You'll ask why: that's because i preferred not to show interest at all rather than give interest to all set and maybe create problems between them.
In the afternoon one of her friend (we'll call her A) told to my friends that my target was really interested in me, but she had to think: the girls code to say "Do something!" So the next day during the first break at school i acted normally, i just went to my table and began to have a good time with friends, she sat on the front table, and in less than a minute she took her chair and moved to my table, and sat next to me. I made again some eye contact, and kino, the sexual vibe was huge. I decided to aspect the next break, two hours later, to k-close with her, i wanted to increase her desire of me. Unfortunately she didn't come, she had a test :S and she won't be at school the next day. I was really frustrated with this, so i decided to contact on Facebook her second friend (we'll call her B) i just talked to her and what happened was incredible, she told me the opposite than A. She told that my target likes another guy, and i've absolutely no possibilities with her. I replied without giving much importance to what she said. And I gradually made the conversation die, after 10 minutes of silence B gave me her number using a giant excuse and began to say: why don't you go out with us, there's me!

This is my actual situation, i don't know what i have to do. I'm really confused because i had IOIs and A told me she likes me, but B said the opposite and also gave IOIs. What would you do in my pants? I really need some advices!
 

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NorwegianDJ

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You need to chill with the tactics and stuff bro. You shouldn't be worried about displaying interest.

They both like you and you should get the first chick fast before she gives up on you.
 

Amo

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Never trust a woman about women.
Norway and Ameya are correct.
 
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