"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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problem with girl from the same gym class!

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o.k. so first of all i'm new to this website and i hope i'll learn some stuff here.

so in the beginning of the semester i got transfered to a soccer gym class, because i'm on a soccer team and just the boys and girls soccer team are in this gym class.

so there was a girl that she's on the soccer team and she's senior and i'm sophmore (she is 17-18 and i'm 16 very soon.)

now i told to my friends that i like her, and the news spread quikly and last week i took her for a talk for a minute and i asked her if my friend told something bad about me, and she said no and she sat down.

then yesterday i asked my friend who has the same math class with her to ask her what she thinks about me and she told her that she dont know me so good until now!

but what i'm doing when i'm coming on monday to school what to tell her?
and i think she has a boyfriend because i saw her walking with this guy when she is in his arms.

so please what to do? what to tell her?
she is 2 years older than me.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You have oneitis. The usual answer is go out, and talk to a ton of women until you get over it. If you are going to continue this, just be in charge. Don't have people ask what she thinks, her body language and attitude should show what she thinks of you. Don't flock all over her, treat her like a girl you aren't that interested in.
 
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Just coz she was in some guys arms doesn't mean he's her boyfriend. If I'm with a girl during the day, she's in my arms at least once in the night, if not for most of it.
 
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lol... alright

i'll give you advice... but...

i'll give you a chance to rewrite this whole entire thing with 'periods', 'commas', and spaces between each paragraph.

and have it make sense to a normal person.
 
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Michele said:
lol... alright

i'll give you advice... but...

i'll give you a chance to rewrite this whole entire thing with 'periods', 'commas', and spaces between each paragraph.

and have it make sense to a normal person.
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sorry for that michele, i edited that, and hope that it is better to read now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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i'll be blunt honest with you...

she doesn't seem interested.

if news spread quickly that you like her... she probably heard it. and seems like shes not giving any kind of interested (unless you forgot to mention it here).

have you ever talked to her before... not mindless chit-chat, but in a way where you both can get to know each other?

you asked your friend, which was a bad move, and made a senior girl look at you like you can't handle a situation yourself. not good. why should she even bother "dating" you if you can't handle that kind of situation on your own? she doesn't want to babysit you or teach you new things.

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you have absolutely nothing to tell her (assuming you don't talk to her ever) monday. but you can start small by getting to know her better.

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but if you are friends at least, at least ask her genuinely how she is. nothing is more annoying than "hey sup".

ask her with interest, "hey <her name>, how's your day been?"... go on from there.

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it starts small... you know her already, it'll naturally progress to an acquaintance to becoming a "friend"...

you won't go from seeing her in the halls to her bing lovey-dovey with you.

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get to know her...

and show her you're a pretty cool person for someone that's younger than her.

don't talk about how you're cool... show it with how you act with people... and don't force her to think you're cool (if you know what i mean)...

just get to know her.
 
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You have a lot to learn my friend, go read the DJ Bible and some of the 5 star posts in the tips section, then come back to this thread and look at all the mistakes you made with this girl. It can probably still be fixed though, nothing to serious, just get to reading!:up:
 
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Rock_Solid said:
You have a lot to learn my friend, go read the DJ Bible and some of the 5 star posts in the tips section, then come back to this thread and look at all the mistakes you made with this girl. It can probably still be fixed though, nothing to serious, just get to reading!:up:
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can you show me where is that?

i'm new to this website. thank you :)
 
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its the link on the bottom of the page that says dj bible. please if you new to the site look around a bit and then if you still have problems then ask.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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