Ok here is my problem guys..I have been seeing this 30 year old female for a few weeks and we havent had sex yet..the problem is I am 23 and I told her I was 25..do you guys think I should tell her my real age..seems like she wouldn't be interested in me anymore if I told her I was 23..part of me wants to lie forver atleast until she falls in love or something..what you guys think.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Problem with 30 year old women
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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My question is this:tebow1120 said:
What are you REALLY asking?
It almost seems like what you want to know is if by telling her you are 23, will she THEN have sex with you? I would be less concerned about what she'll think of your age and MORE concerned with why you two haven't had sex yet.
BTW, I can tell you already, this will not progress into a serious relationship. You already lied to her about your age... as soon as you tell her the truth, she'll ALWAYS have that in the back of her mind and wonder what else you are lying about. She'll never be able to trust you, which means that she'll never be able to see herself in a relationship with you.
You should be more concerned about getting her in bed a few times and then nothing more.
Why did you tell her you were 25 in the first place?
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Tim Tebow, why the f**k didn't you f**k her yet? Don't tell her the truth now!tebow1120 said:
Do you really want a long term relationship with this girl?
Sometimes you gotta lie to get what you want. Everybody lies. This girl is probably lying to you about something and lying in bed with another man right now.
This. Your thinking is backwards brother. You should sleep with her first THEN consider telling her the truth rather than telling her the truth first and harm of chances of even sleeping with her! Use your common sense.Kailex said:
You need to stop worrying about it and get what you want from her and stop thinking about her falling in love or whatever. There is an age difference in this situation which for women it's just getting a young toy (you). Most of the time women don't see you as a marriage partner but a toy for sex. This is why cougars go for younger guys not for serious relationships.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Kailex
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We actually said the same thing.f283000 said:
I just said this:
Because he said this:
She's definitely not in it for a serious relationship, we both can agree with that. That's why I said that he should be concerned with getting her in bed a few times, and nothing else. This won't progress past sex, if he even gets to that, which at this point... looks like it isn't happening.
Listen son. When I pick up a younger chic. I only care that she's legal and have a hot body. I know if she's not 26+ its just a fling. You are just a fling to this women, so have fun and stop caring what she thinks. Good luck.
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And she is probably 35yr old...
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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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It doesnt matter.. you already fibbed so just role with it. Chances are things will end before she ever finds out and if it doesnt then she'll already be commited.
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F her first before you tell any truths...
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OK i have to interject here because this kind of pvssified mindset really gets to me!
WHY would you tell some random piece of azz that you lied to her about your age? WHY? Because you are a pvssy? That would be the only reason you would ever admit something to some random piece of azz that would make you look worse than you wanna look in her useless eyes.
You gotta really teach yourself how to be a bad boy who doesn't give a FVCK and puts having sex ABOVE all else (morals, lying, being nice and considerate, ect ect)
WHY would you tell some random piece of azz that you lied to her about your age? WHY? Because you are a pvssy? That would be the only reason you would ever admit something to some random piece of azz that would make you look worse than you wanna look in her useless eyes.
You gotta really teach yourself how to be a bad boy who doesn't give a FVCK and puts having sex ABOVE all else (morals, lying, being nice and considerate, ect ect)