Hi
I'm mental masturbation type of guy. I have read tons of stuff about self improvement concepts, picking up girls and other stuff. I'm constantly improving my life, eating healthy, going to gym, I stopped all addictions, got hobbies, got lots of things going on.
My problem is, I don't like talking to people cause I think they are idiots. In more detail:
-I don't like talking about nothing cause it's waste of time and it brings only frustration when talking to people with wrong mindset (complaining, gossiping, low self esteem, bragging, sucking up, unfunny stories with no sense, you name it).
-I don't like talking about something that i'm interested in. People are generally close minded and can't think on level which I'm thinking. They never know what I'm talking about (too much social programming) and I hate explaining and bragging so I usually don't tell anyone anything.
-I don't like talking about something that someone is interested in, cause they are pretty close minded and self-righteous about things that they are doing. I instantly see things that they can improve to get better but they don't want to hear it. Nevertheless, most of peoples hobbies are TV, football, drinking, laziness and I don't want to hear about it.
-Stories are sometimes funny but delivery is often terrible and I want to run away in middle cause I'm bored as ****.
Now from what I know, to start getting girls I need to talk to them. But to be good in talking to girls I need to be good in talking to anyone. But I don't want to talk to people and girls cause they are dumb. I know that "It does not matter what you are saying", but still, you have to say something. I have read in 'Book of Pook' that I need to know what I want to talk about with girl. Well, I don't want to talk with her about anything. But I don't think saying "Hi" and silence for 2 minutes and then "Can you give me your number?" would work.
What do I need to do to start enjoying talking to people? How do I fix my ****ed up mindset and not get frustrated when talking to anyone?
I'm mental masturbation type of guy. I have read tons of stuff about self improvement concepts, picking up girls and other stuff. I'm constantly improving my life, eating healthy, going to gym, I stopped all addictions, got hobbies, got lots of things going on.
My problem is, I don't like talking to people cause I think they are idiots. In more detail:
-I don't like talking about nothing cause it's waste of time and it brings only frustration when talking to people with wrong mindset (complaining, gossiping, low self esteem, bragging, sucking up, unfunny stories with no sense, you name it).
-I don't like talking about something that i'm interested in. People are generally close minded and can't think on level which I'm thinking. They never know what I'm talking about (too much social programming) and I hate explaining and bragging so I usually don't tell anyone anything.
-I don't like talking about something that someone is interested in, cause they are pretty close minded and self-righteous about things that they are doing. I instantly see things that they can improve to get better but they don't want to hear it. Nevertheless, most of peoples hobbies are TV, football, drinking, laziness and I don't want to hear about it.
-Stories are sometimes funny but delivery is often terrible and I want to run away in middle cause I'm bored as ****.
Now from what I know, to start getting girls I need to talk to them. But to be good in talking to girls I need to be good in talking to anyone. But I don't want to talk to people and girls cause they are dumb. I know that "It does not matter what you are saying", but still, you have to say something. I have read in 'Book of Pook' that I need to know what I want to talk about with girl. Well, I don't want to talk with her about anything. But I don't think saying "Hi" and silence for 2 minutes and then "Can you give me your number?" would work.
What do I need to do to start enjoying talking to people? How do I fix my ****ed up mindset and not get frustrated when talking to anyone?
