"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Problem i am once more running into

Epicwinguy

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I am sitting in a grocery store Starbucks waiting for my work next door to begin and this pretty lady gets in line. I am attracted but...what do I do? Just get in line behind her and try striking up a convo? Wait until she walks away then try? Either thing just sweems weird.

Yes, you have probably seen topics on aa before but i figured this is perfect since i am asking while in that situation
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"What are you drinking?"
"You really should try coffee with butter." (I'd say that simply because I drink my coffee with butter), i.e bulletproof.
"I love that necklace"
"You look hot"
"You look hot, let's have sex"

Basically, say something about the situation you find yourself and her in. Whatever that might be, just be genuine about it. Depending on your confidence and experience what you actually say might differ, of course. When doing it the first time, then the last line is likely not the best choice. Then again, just saying "hi", works too.
 
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