"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Problem i am once more running into

Epicwinguy

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I am sitting in a grocery store Starbucks waiting for my work next door to begin and this pretty lady gets in line. I am attracted but...what do I do? Just get in line behind her and try striking up a convo? Wait until she walks away then try? Either thing just sweems weird.

Yes, you have probably seen topics on aa before but i figured this is perfect since i am asking while in that situation
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"What are you drinking?"
"You really should try coffee with butter." (I'd say that simply because I drink my coffee with butter), i.e bulletproof.
"I love that necklace"
"You look hot"
"You look hot, let's have sex"

Basically, say something about the situation you find yourself and her in. Whatever that might be, just be genuine about it. Depending on your confidence and experience what you actually say might differ, of course. When doing it the first time, then the last line is likely not the best choice. Then again, just saying "hi", works too.
 
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