"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TonyHeatDaDon

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Aight I"m black and I work downtown in nyc so I see alot of white chicks that I be feeling but for some reason they all seem intimidated by me. I'm bald(by choice) about 6'0, 215 not to big pretty muscular but it seems like they all think I"m a thug or whatnot. But what I'm trying to say is when I went to stay with my fam in the poconos them white chicks was all over me but in nyc they on some scared type ****. Now I'm not changing my dress or image for no chich ever I'm just asking how can I approach them without them giving me that "oh god he's gonna do something" look. Now be realistic people and if any of you dudes wanna try and get some ghetto chicks out here in the bronx holla @ me. 1 love.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why Are u trying to pick up white chicks only? what the hell is wrong with u? I pick up chicks of all colors and races, Black, asias Indian, white, I dont care just as long as they are interested in me. If the white girls r not interested then forget them!
 

TonyHeatDaDon

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whoa whoa whoa slow down fam. I'm trying to pick up them cause there the only chicks I see at work besides asian chicks who also I see alot of in the bx so its nothing. Thats why I'm asking. Its only the internet no need to be a tough guy.
 

Unforsaken

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seem like your sterotyping. To be honest. I would have so much fun wth this me. If I caught a women looking at me. I would start looking at her strange until she says "what?" or I would say "Hey, have you heard the news?" She says "no" then I say "Last night on the channel 7 news. They were giving a special on how white women were evil. They will drain you of your money and then kick you to the curb". Then I would interject with "I need to be careful. I can't trust white women, when I turn around my wallet might be gone". In other words, I am flipping it around and using it against them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Omega

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What do you wear? If your wearing commercial gangster clothing, reassess your outlook as a working man.

Who cares if they're intimidated, approaching for yourself is all you can do.
 

KingPinp

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Hey dude,

Are you sure its your boldness that intimidates them? Do you dress like a thug? Are you a drug dealer? How do you approach?

It all factors in...
 

learningtopimp

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Man you just gotta be funny with them in an unintimidating way....kind of c + f but give off that cool, in control kind of vibe that guys like Jay Z have. Be funny and remember, lots of these girls love black dudes, just come to Cali and you will see. Read some of Player Supreme's posts, he has good advice for brothas. And dude, bro, don't just go for white girls only! Some are hot but it's not like they have a monopoly, tons of Asian, middle eastern, latina black females that are worth it. Go after white girls if you want to, but don't limit yourself to them.
 
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