"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Problem about converting new friend to Girlfriend?

Amateur_FOR_NOW

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Hello guys, I'm new here.I lived in Eastern Europe all my life....

Anyway, I have met a very nice and pretty girl in colledge, and I don't know if she likes me?She is not the tipycall pretty girl that acts as no one can have her!

At first, we talked about her last boyfriend and she still didn't overcome him all the way!

I immediately after that conversation stopped talking about her personal stuff and I stopped being her cusion because that was going to make us FRIEND ONLY:mad: !

We don't talk on the phone or anything, but when we are in colledge I sometimes kind of ignore her and sometimes I sit with her and we talk.

Only recently I started using the kino and touching her from time to time. At first it felt weird to her, but I think it's ok now!

SO,WHAT NEXT,PLEASE HELP,SHE SAYS SHES STILL GRIEVING OVER HER OLD BOYFRIEND;I am not a wuss today as I was before and I actually act dominant over her and she mostly accepts it, BUT WHAT TO DO NEXT,PLEASE HELP???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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[QUOTE;I am a wuss today, BUT WHAT TO DO NEXT,PLEASE HELP??? [/B][/QUOTE]

u r a wuss. get some balls loser make a move.
 

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Just read the DJ Bible in the Top Right corner of the site and do a small search on "next move" or something similar on the forum. I think quite few topics will come up sense they have been brought up before.

-I hope that helps you out a bit man. I am not quialified to give you advice but I can at least point you in the right dirrection.

-Good luck with the girl bro just read the DJ Bible and your set with her and the rest of your life. But do not forget.... If you only read and don't apply this stuff you will accomplish nothing. Reading = 10% and 90% should be field work. Good luck again!

-Sinisa Out
 

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Re: Re: Problem about converting new friend to Girlfriend?

Originally posted by NumenMalefic
[QUOTE;I am a wuss today, BUT WHAT TO DO NEXT,PLEASE HELP???
u r a wuss. get some balls loser make a move. [/B][/QUOTE]

What are you talking about,I said that I was a wus before, not TODAY!:mad:
 

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Ameature, don't argue man. It's pointless. You should be spending some of this time you got now to read that DJ Bible its gona help you out a lot! Once again read my post man.

-Dont argue, its pointless.

-Sinisa Out
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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