Probably been asked a thousand times but...

[MrGold]

Brief history..

I was at the library late with a couple-o buddies.. Was waiting for a study room to become available so i rolled into one and asked the girl (hb8) and dude (assumed boyfriend) if they were leaving anytime soon and sure enough they were. Us boys waited for them to pack their sh!t up and leave before invading.. She left the room with a nervous look and rushed off. Of course we were kinda like WTH? Now as soon as i walked in i noticed a torn piece of paper with a few words scribbled on in (id seen the girl do this). Written as follows:

'Hi tall guy, I'm the girl in the short skirt, call me 07********'


---> So now here comes the issue.. How to i approach this? When do i contact her? What do i say? Im going back to the library tomorrow so im not sure what to do or say incase i do see her.. <---


This hasnt happened to be before, so please dont mock lol. I was caught off guard!

Thanks in advance, Gold.

BTW, the library is a effin' good pick-up ground! :rockon:

 

[mothballs]

Yeah... wait like 2-3 days then call her up, identify yourself... ask for her name, bs for a minute then ask her to join you for coffee on saturday afternoon... it's being handed to you on a silver platter.

 

[MisterMcGee]

youre going to get a date... she basically asked you out lol

 

[jayhood]

If i were you i would not call yet. Instead, i would talk and flirt with her in school for the moment. show her sign that you MIGHT be interested. Remember, she is trying to attract you by doing this. And the more she is trying to attract you the higher her interest level will go. if she finds out that you are THAT interested, she will do less to attract you and will feel validated.

Thus, the point is this: play hard to get with her. Do not do the obvious yet. ( which is to call her) if you flirt with her in school and do not call, she will starts to wonder. And that is a good thing. The more she wonders about you, the more she will think about you. And the more she thinks about you the more attracted she will become to you.

Also, do not fear that you might lose her. Do not. She already thought of you as the prize to be won over. So make her work for it!!

 

[Daydream Engineer]

If i were you i would not call yet. Instead, i would talk and flirt with her in school for the moment. show her sign that you MIGHT be interested. Remember, she is trying to attract you by doing this. And the more she is trying to attract you the higher her interest level will go. if she finds out that you are THAT interested, she will do less to attract you and will feel validated.

Thus, the point is this: play hard to get with her. Do not do the obvious yet. ( which is to call her) if you flirt with her in school and do not call, she will starts to wonder. And that is a good thing. The more she wonders about you, the more she will think about you. And the more she thinks about you the more attracted she will become to you.

Also, do not fear that you might lose her. Do not. She already thought of you as the prize to be won over. So make her work for it!!

Yeah what jayhood said! Let her think she is attracting you. Unlike 95% of girls shes bold and know what guys she wants. give it several days and call her tell her you think shes cool enough, but want to make sure what shes all about.