"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pro-tip: Get a smart phone!

SandHawk

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I recently discovered that some girls are quite suspicious about other potential errands. Even if you're not exclusive with them, and they know you're not planning on becoming exclusive, they still burn with suspicion on what other errands you have.

Girls have a tendency to wanting to check out text messages when they hear my phone go off, or they grab my phone when I'm taking a toilet break. Since I cannot be bothered to always take my phone with me or constantly be on my guard whether they're going to check it out, I put a lock on it.

Every time I turn the screen on, I have to type in a simple pin. Yes, it's annoying, but it stops girls from reading my texts. I have a HTC Touch Pro2, but I know all iPhones and Windows Mobile smartphones have this feature(and I don't Android doesn't have a similar feature).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kingsam

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i learnt the hard way about not letting girls read your messages...you need to set early on the first time they try it that its NOT acceptable for them to behaive like this...

BUT girls with a high enought Interest Level will want you more when they know you have options, they will want to get you over the other women getting you!
"kitty-cats compete" (with each other for the man!)
 

Lexington

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Even ancient phones have this feature. It's probably not a default setting but if you tinker with the preferences, you can set it so that you need to enter a PIN.
 
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