"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PRL and marriage

cremdela

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Men get married to avoid having to pull a girl, sex on tap. Why 85% cheat is because they learn that the sex is not on tap and gets functional and mundane.

As for PRL, we all know he gets his theories from his own little value system but don't any of you get sick of his "ITS A FACT" crap?

Not that long ago it was a FACT that the World was flat. Not that long ago bacteria didn't exist, it was a fog. Not that long ago it was a fact that man wouldn't fly. Not that long ago women couldn't vote. YOUR BIBLE states that not only are you banished from homosexual interaction but you also must stay clear of dwarfs, they are unclean and unholy....FACT?

One thing is a fact, PRL has a Christian style philosophy that stems from his own views. He is educted, intelligent and writes graceful sentences. This is enough to make the SHEEP bleath as they run toward him.

It was a FACT that women who couldn't orgasm via penetration were ill formed and sick. It was a FACT, that in Salom, devil worship was rife and people had to pay with their lives.

SO, I am not advocating ignoring PRL, just remember that his FACTS are basically ALL in his own head and own demons....little to do with any reality.; just his take on it.

Marriage is about kids, security and stabilty for women and the kids. Women get married for kids, you become a mule and an ATM machine, and IF YOU ARE LUCKY, she becomes a hooker and maid. This usually doesn't work, so you break up. Is this a FACT? NO! Its my take on the situation from my experience and observation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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onthepath

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wow
ease up on the insecurity there

this site is all about self improvement, and if you're lucky enough to discover a viewpoint, even if it's not your own, that you agree with, then embrace it and change your life for the better

if you dont agree with ti, just leave it at that

i'm still clinging onto finding my most compatible "one" and that's the one i marry. i plan to marry because i enjoy her company, i want the sex, i want purpose in my life via children - i want my own family
 

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Insecurity?

What did you read? Reread it and your reply, you, my friend sound a little more insecure and needy than me.

Grow up!
 

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i have re-read it
and to me it sounds like you dont agree with PRL views, and you wrote that entire post to make it known to everyone that they dont have to believe it either
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by onthepath
i have re-read it
and to me it sounds like you dont agree with PRL views, and you wrote that entire post to make it known to everyone that they dont have to believe it either
The problem with his argument is that he is equating marriage with religion, when in reality marriage has nothing to do with religion and is typically assertive and there for everyone. This concept is found in secularism as well and shouldn't be something to be rejected meerly because a religion has embraced assertive thinking principles and activelly encourages them.
 

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Eh?

What is the point of this thread? Everyone here has an opinion. But to start a thread specifically to challenge one person is a bit extreme. Your views are valid without citing PRL as a scapegoat.
 

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agree or disagree

I agree with some stuff PRL says and I disagree with some stuff PRL says. My issue with PRL is that all non-virgins are sluts...ITS A FACT. He quotes the natural order of things, AS A FACT. Beware the ITS A FACT PEOPLE. PRL has some really solid theories but he believes he knows all the a answers and you bloody sheep are just so desperate to follow him.

It is a FACT that the most educated society in the early 20th Century were German. It s a FACT that over 90% of the popular vote accepted Adolf Hitler as their ruler. Hitler knew for a FACT that Germany were a Master race and Jews and Slavs were inferior, so inferior that they could be culled.

Even Hitler had some good theories. Its a FACT, its the Natural Order of things. Get a friggin life, grow your own brain and think for yourself. PRL is a 41 year old man who LIVES in this web site, how much could he really know?

Yes, he is educated, some of his arguments are compelling, but if he had been raised in say Sudan as a Muslim, I have the feeling he would have a different take on the natural order of things and the facts he espouses to you hapless fools every fu#$ing day without fail.

Still, he is a Master Don Juan right? He must know all the answers, anyone who posts as often as he does MUST be right. What would I know? I have been living life and occassionaly look in here for an opinion. He MUST know more than me. I am a professional, I dress well, I have plenty of girlies and I have even been married and am currently now engaged.

Try to understand, I dont begrudge PRL his opinion, but I have a massive aversion toward people who shut others down with their useage of terms such as "its a fact" and "the natural order of things". What a lame, cowardly and retarded way of arguing.

THINK FOR YOURSELVES. I agree with nearly 50% of everythng PRL says, in reality.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cremdela, i can see where youer coming from
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75227

his matter of fact way of speaking is a little judgmental, but for the most part i agree with what he says. iny just about all the "cases " i have met, the women who sleep around are sluts and attention wh0res. even if they only slept with someone once, when they were drunk, i feel it says somethinga bout their personality - a lack of self control in that they slept with someone, or they drank so much that they completley lost conscious thought. even if they are nice girls for the most part in everyday life, i would still recoil somewhat from them if i had this knowledge of their past.

however, if you can see a lasting change in their life, sort of like they're programming themselves to change, then there may be some fruit in pursuing a relationship

but at the end of the day, you should be happy with what you do, based on your thoughts. if you dont appreciate PRL's views, then you dont have to go condemn them, but merely ignore them, or post your own, without attacking the validity of another's viewpoint.
 

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sorry about that

I didn't realize soemone had already had the same issues and posted similar stuff. Fair enough.

Okay, my opinion = non virgins are not wh#res, gays are not threat, its okay to eat with dwarfs, marriage is about convenience and kids, women are actually ALL individuals and women LOVE sex, they just have more options.

There is NO NATURAL ORDER and almost all FACTS change, adapt and are proven wrong over time.

Seeya, got to get back to tat "real life" I was tellin yall about.
 

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Re: sorry about that

Originally posted by cremdela
its okay to eat dwarfs,
:eek:
 

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Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa... I though I was the one walking around here pissing people off by calling them insecure.

I WANNA PLAY TOO!!! :p
 

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Re: sorry about that

Originally posted by cremdela
There is NO NATURAL ORDER
So you're saying that the evolution of species and roles genders play within a set of species is completely irrelevant? That there is no order? That evolution and gender roles are chaotic/disorganized? One look at the animal kingdom and behvaiour patterns between genders gives a very different story.

If that is so, your logic is frightening.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: sorry about that

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
So you're saying that the evolution of species and roles genders play within a set of species is completely irrelevant? That there is no order? That evolution and gender roles are chaotic/disorganized? One look at the animal kingdom and behvaiour patterns between genders gives a very different story.

If that is so, your logic is frightening.
If you take the time to read maslow's study on animals, there are many similarities between people and animals that he observed in the way that they interact.
 

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Re: Re: Re: sorry about that

Originally posted by rgeere
If you take the time to read maslow's study on animals, there are many similarities between people and animals that he observed in the way that they interact.
This is because as intelligent as we are (or as we like to think that we are), we ARE animals ourselves. So Maslow's findings are not a surprise.
 

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PRL is just really strong in his opinions and goes to the wall to back them up. Still though their just opinions like anybody elses thoughts on this site. Even though he may type FACT next to things and blast you with reasons as to why you've got it all wrong, just remember it's an opinion. A well written, strongly emphisized, and very preachy opinion but still just an opinion.

It's good that he's here because it gives us all points of views to base our own individual thoughts on. It always helps you forming your own opinion when you see and concider the thoughts of others. Well if you're a critical thinker anyway.

I prefer sciences for my facts and philosphies for my unknowns but some prefer relegion because it's a bridge between the two and makes things a lot easier to grasp because it requires less thinking. But again that's MY opinion of how to evaluate things. It works for me but in everyone elses mind that could be the stupidest concept in the world, and I'm okay with that.
 

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LIT Gun For Hire

Lets break it down hammer time

posts 10 eh ? yet you know so much about PR_L ?

GOOD QUESTION

10 posts and yet you HATE PR_L ?

interesting

offended by PR_L's posts ? especially his calling YOU a wh0re ?

yes ? why ?

BECAUSE YOU ARE A WOMAN !

****10 points if you guess who she is my fellow don juans*****

clue : PR_L called her a wh0re after she posted asking for advice

Quote - cremdela
he believes he knows all the a answers and you bloody sheep are just so desperate to follow him

some people disagree with PR_L on different topics

you sheep ? you are not one of us ?

******** = you men

Quote - cremdela
women are actually ALL individuals and women LOVE sex, they just have more options.

you are a women :) just so we get it thanks for putting ALL in capitals so it sinks in through our think male skulls

Quote - cremdela
Seeya, got to get back to tat "real life" I was tellin yall about.

that sounds like false bravado

Quote - cremdela
It was a FACT that women who couldn't orgasm via penetration were ill formed and sick.

no idea what that means but it sound like something you would learn at a feminist save the crack wh0re rally

Insecurity?
What did you read? Reread it and your reply, you, my friend sound a little more insecure and needy than me.

Grow up!


onthepath didn't say the word needy......

grow up ? i know a chick who says that every time she is challenged she also says " you my friend " before she says something

cremdela i know you are trying to turn your current man into a LTR and it doesn't seem to be working. don't give up. crack wh0res are known to be tough.


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Re: Re: LIT Gun For Hire

Originally posted by kyanite
Well said my friend, what the **** are women doing on this site anyway?
As in real life, they're here for our amusement. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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