"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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J.R.G.G

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i was thinking and i dont get it, i usually receive private calls to my cell phone... i awnser normally and expect for the person who called me to say something but she stays quiet until i hang up or she hangs up in a couple of seconds. i say she because girls do this... i dont know why. In the past some girlfriends confess they called me private but they never give me a reason for doing that.
Why do girls do this, do any of you have and idea?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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insidious

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I called a girl about a month ago at her job. I met her once before and I found her number off a business card. I called, talked a little, sensed there was no great interest, no great future. NEXT.

I think she might not have realized I was calling from my cellphone. About a month later I get a call from her work number and she hangs up on my ass. Find out later she is married. Hang ups/missed phone calls are a waste and I wouldn't waste my mental energy on them. If someone wants to talk to you, they will.
 

TxCowboy

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In the future .... after they've left a missed call (and if you have a # to call back) then you should just let it sit for a while .... depending on situation ... anywhere from 30 min to a day or 2

also ... dont always answer ... you'll be suprised at how much better of a response you'll get if you make them leave a msg
 

diablo

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How old are the people in question? If you're still in high school that kind of childish behavior is acceptable, if you aren't, then it's not...
 
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