"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Price to live in Australia for a few months?

Marvin Gaye

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One thing that's really great about Sosuave is that a lot of members here have seen the world; all these threads about travel make me want to confess, USA kind of annoys me. The hectic lifestyle here is daunting sometimes, I wouldn't mind being able to kickback in a chillout place, and I hear Australia's very laidback. It's also very diverse from what I hear.

I know some people from Perth, they say that's the place you'd want to check out if you're visiting. So this is a long term goal I have--but a goal nonetheless--I'm saving up some money to check out Australia for a few months, get an apartment there, a job, take surf and guitar lessons....how would I go about doing this?

Sorry for being lazy; I know I can check out one of the many travel threads here in Anything Else
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You will need at least $500 a week to cover all your expenses. So at least $6000 for 3 months. More to be comfortable.
 

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Aren't you all about black culture? Why not go live with black people? I'm not even kidding...
 

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I live in Perth. The cost of living is very high here. Rent is expensive ($400 week if you want to live in or near the city) and alcohol is more expensive here than anywhere else in Australia. Dining out is also pricey. It isn't the most exciting place because shops close early and the cost of living is so high. Other cities in Australia might be better for you. Also, not all of Australia is laid back. Sydney certainly isn't.
 

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OzyBoy said:
You will need at least $500 a week to cover all your expenses. So at least $6000 for 3 months. More to be comfortable.
Wow, I never knew Australia was that expensive. What about staying in hostels, etc.?

Marvin, you could always do what a good friend of mine did. He spent a whole year in Australia, he bought a van and drove the whole country surfing and living out of his van. I'm not sure how much he spent, but he worked odd jobs to fund his adventure. BTW, he always had women with him he met along the way.

The times I've travelled, I always travelled cheap. I never had any problems meeting some awesome people, and hot women as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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