Preventing Friendzone? - Stuck With GF for all of January

[foomee]

So being the same major as me, my girlfriend and I are stuck in the same class this January, Our school has this thing called Janterm and it is a month long class during all of January. We are going to Nicaragua for the entire month and it is done as a class so I will probably see her every day. The first thing is, I don't want to get sick of her. And I also don't want her to put me in the friendzone. It is going to be very hard for us to be sexual, our housing assignments will probably be guys in one house, girls in another.
This is going to be very hard, but how can I go about preventing the friendzone while not getting sick of her? I am thinking try to get my own small group of friends and hang out with them while she hangs out with other people. Also should I talk to other girls in our class too? Ahh this seems harder than I thought it'd be...

 

[Vice]

Tell her that she should sneak out at night one night so you can show her something cool...

Then have hot, passionate sex.

 

[kabatura]

Am I missing something here? It's your girlfriend right? Have yall not been together for long or what? Spending 30 days with anyone 24 hours a day would make them get on your nerves, you naturally are going to want to meet other people, especially the guys you'll be staying with. I'm not sure how you'll fall into the friendzone with your girlfriend. Being a wuss didn't get her, do you plan on all the sudden changing?

 

[ready123]

yeah, the friendzone is what you worry about when you're still trying to attract the girl, not when you of two are already in a relationship. unless you throw around the word girlfriend loosely, you should be way past any danger of being put in the friend zone at this point

clarify the concepts that are used on this board in a logical sense so you don't misapply them. ask the vets on the board if you need to. one of the biggest mistakes guys make is taking techniques and concepts that are specific to certain situations and applying them out of context. for example, taking attraction game and applying them to LTR's (kinda like what you're doing), or negging girls who have lower value than you

 

[ego]

Would be cool to help you but it's kinda hard without the details.

I live with my girlfriend and I tell her when we should and should not stay away from each other, and it's normal. I mean, if you think about it, like someone else said - hanging out with the same person all day long (Whoever that is) and you'll start to get pissed off at each other pretty pretty quick. And this leads me to my question:

How long time have you been dating her man? How old is she / you?

What I would do is hang out with my friends and have her hanging out with her friends while studying. Why? Studying is as NON-SEXUAL it can be. This means:

Hanging out with each other in a group of people to study = No sexual interaction = Death of attraction = You'll break up with her or she'll relate to you more as a friend.

It's not like that to a 100% all the time but since we need to be general in this discussion in lack of details that's how it will end in your case.

What I suggest is that you stay away while studyin and then meet just the two of you for the purpose of hot interaction.


To your last question: Talk to everyone you wanna talk to. OF COURSE you should talk to the other girls in the class. And guys. And old people, and young people. Talk with everyone but don't cheat on her in the terms of sexual interaction unless you WANT TO BREAK UP or you're not a real couple.

good luck man

 

[MacAvoy]

Use it to your advantage, start having day sex with her in exotic locations, whether it be a bathroom or anywhere really. Use your imagination. I can't see your classes being 16 hours a day. Spend only half your evenings with her, telling her you want to hang with the guys. Also take in new sites with her, she'll relate those positive experiences to you.

 

[theNEWDJ]

Dude man thats an awesome situation! I wouldnt worry to much about it, your traveling to a foreign country with a chick you like, the adventure itself is gonna spark attraction. Just stay positive and do your own thing as much as you can and keep it sexual and smooth when your around your lady, you should have an awesome time

 

[shaunuk]

MacAvoy and the others have good ideas. The key thing is to keep it sexual..

But mate, don't worry too damn much about it, you don't get put in the friend zone for not being sexual ALL the time. I could play chess with my gf and she wouldn't lose attraction and put me in the friend zone..lol..

You've already attracted her, don't sweat over it, just keep the sexual stuff going as much as you can.

 

[Leporello]

Hard to keep things sexual for a whole month? How long have you been together?