Pretty Girl Problem

[stevo]

Fellas,

I notice people naturally treat pretty girls like celebrities, quickly forgiving them of any wrongdoing just to remain in good terms and show them off as someone they know.

I've also noticed, they naturally know about game especially the abundance mentality and they mostly have low self esteem / self-worth.

I remember one day I picked up my dime plate, she was very upset, "everyone keeps saying you're so beautiful, you're so pretty, everywhere I go, I'm freaking tired of hearing it!" was what she said.

I thought it was childish of her, people have real problems and hers was how much she's admired? but I'm starting to grasp how much of a problem it could be, it's almost like constantly failing to be seen as a human being, being denied the ability to simply coexist.



Dime plates (DP) are lonely. If like attract like then they want Dime male? and those dudes are not really settling and when they do it's almost with a less attractive girl so DP are almost up for the taking?

Dimes automatically assume any one with balls enough to approach them is a player, apparently they don't like players.

- She wont give you IOI and she might auto reject you but she does want to be approached, what?



What's been your experience getting, keeping, losing a DP and how do we use societal imbalance to our advantage?


http://verysmartbrothas.com/pretty-girl-problems/

http://thoughtcatalog.com/tessah-schoenrock/2011/10/what-its-like-to-be-a-pretty-girl/

http://hellobeautiful.com/2014/06/17/things-pretty-girls-say/

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Yeah, good post and pertinent topic, Stevo.

On forgiveness:
Particularly applies to the chick I broke it off with recently - probably a solid 8 before she gets out of bed in the morning; kind of sweet-looking elfin features. She admitted as much, that she 'usually gets away with stuff' - flaking, cancelling work at the last minute, not reaching full potential with studies etc. Told her she no longer gets away with that stuff with me.

On game:
Yeah, the same chick was a pretty savvy game-player too, well in some respects anyway; playing the sweet, innocent and dumb act in public, but obviously very aware of social and psychological dynamics.

On the impressions of others:
I myself have been told throughout my life that I am, let's say 'above average' looking. I had grown women hitting on me as a 13-14 year old! I don't really care, though whatever it is has obviously made my life easier in certain respects, and I am in no way complaining. However, the simple co-existence factor does become an issue sometimes - some mates will continuously use 'looks' as a reason why I am more successful, when actually, in a lot of respects, I am far less successful than others are and in more ways than simply attracting women.

On loneliness:
Yes, it can be a lonely existence. Outsiders see an 'attractive', successful person and assume that no input is required. 'They've got life sweet' is probably the assumption, where actually we know that any feckless chump or airhead can be cast aside and, success, like failure is transient. It's the equivalent of saying 'All rich people are happy'.

 

[Yewki]

Yes, it can be a lonely existence. Outsiders see an 'attractive', successful person and assume that no input is required. 'They've got life sweet' is probably the assumption, where actually we know that any feckless chump or airhead can be cast aside and, success, like failure is transient. It's the equivalent of saying 'All rich people are happy'.

I see having the advantage of being rich or good looking as a test. A test of character. Can you appreciate your good fortunte and remain humble, or will you take it for granted and be consumed by the desire for more? I find it difficult to have sympathy for those with good fortune who are unhappy. They were given an advantage in life, be it through wealth or genetics, and they sh*t all over it. If life was a test, they failed.

 

[LuckyStrike88]

Fellas,

I notice people naturally treat pretty girls like celebrities, quickly forgiving them of any wrongdoing just to remain in good terms and show them off as someone they know.

I've also noticed, they naturally know about game especially the abundance mentality and they mostly have low self esteem / self-worth.

I remember one day I picked up my dime plate, she was very upset, "everyone keeps saying you're so beautiful, you're so pretty, everywhere I go, I'm freaking tired of hearing it!" was what she said.

I thought it was childish of her, people have real problems and hers was how much she's admired? but I'm starting to grasp how much of a problem it could be, it's almost like constantly failing to be seen as a human being, being denied the ability to simply coexist.



Dime plates (DP) are lonely. If like attract like then they want Dime male? and those dudes are not really settling and when they do it's almost with a less attractive girl so DP are almost up for the taking?

Dimes automatically assume any one with balls enough to approach them is a player, apparently they don't like players.

- She wont give you IOI and she might auto reject you but she does want to be approached, what?



What's been your experience getting, keeping, losing a DP and how do we use societal imbalance to our advantage?


http://verysmartbrothas.com/pretty-girl-problems/

http://thoughtcatalog.com/tessah-schoenrock/2011/10/what-its-like-to-be-a-pretty-girl/

http://hellobeautiful.com/2014/06/17/things-pretty-girls-say/

No ****ing special privileges. Rule number one.
Don't blame them, whenever they did show IOI's in the past when they were younger guys would haunt them all night and would not leave.
You gotta cut through the frame and stay cool, they know what buttons to press so not easy for most.
You have to know how to deal with the ***** shield they put on. And that is to approve her rejection by telling her directly, takes away all it's power.
"I like a fiery woman like you, give me more."
When you are at the point where you can sub-communicate, without a doubt that you are both strong and truly believe you deserve her you are in.
If not go for the other girls.

 

[stevo]

On forgiveness:
Particularly applies to the chick I broke it off with recently - probably a solid 8 before she gets out of bed in the morning; kind of sweet-looking elfin features. She admitted as much, that she 'usually gets away with stuff' - flaking, cancelling work at the last minute, not reaching full potential with studies etc. Told her she no longer gets away with that stuff with me.

I notice, I treat mine different, Did you treat her a specific way you didn't treat your other plates?

No ****ing special privileges. Rule number one.
Don't blame them, whenever they did show IOI's in the past when they were younger guys would haunt them all night and would not leave.
You gotta cut through the frame and stay cool, they know what buttons to press so not easy for most.
You have to know how to deal with the ***** shield they put on. And that is to approve her rejection by telling her directly, takes away all it's power.
"I like a fiery woman like you, give me more."
When you are at the point where you can sub-communicate, without a doubt that you are both strong and truly believe you deserve her you are in.
If not go for the other girls.

So stand there and take her sheet to prove you're strong enough? there has to be another way to score really hot chics.

 

[Julian]

dont take any ish from these chicks.the hotter she is the more you treat her like dog**** and she will fall in love because every beta is worshipping her


honestly comes down to respect...plus these hoes do the choosing anyway. a dime willlet you know she is feeling you justlike any other girl...IE liking your FB comments or IG pics or being extra friendly to you blablabla. they are still just GIRLS...even if beautiful as fuk