Pretty boys - Do they really have it easier?

[CARush]

So I've noticed something about the 'pretty boys' at my school. I'm not meaning to offend anyone, but at times I feel that things are just way too easy for these guys at times.

For example, there's this skinny, short guy that is considered pretty by, well, basically almost every girl I've met. Chicks will automatically start drooling for him without even knowing him. Since he is constantly approached, he obviously has some sense of game, so it's not like he's a complete fag either.

He doesn't really seem the type to do sports, in fact I don't think there's anything interesting about him, even as a guy I'd feel somewhat awkward hanging out with him, but still girls gather around him like he was the last guy on earth.

This isn't the only case I've seen though. I've even seen guys with really bad game make girls totally fall for them, simply for the fact that they got a pretty face. I'm not complaining though, I'm attractive too and have it easy when talking to most people, but there's different levels of attractiveness, and unlike those guys, I don't get approached by girls just by doing nothing.
(And I really mean NOTHING, the guy is just standing there with his buddies when suddenly some chick goes up to him.)

What's everyone's thought on this?

 

[Scars]

Guys like this have the looks advantage, but that is usually where it ends. These are the types of guys that woman use as orbiters. They keep them around for social value and validation. Woman like being seen with attractive people, it makes them feel attractive too. Guys like this tend to be betas, afcs, and emotional tampons. They may get constant female attention, but they usually can't solidify a lay. Unless of course he DOES have good game, but don't count on it. Don't mistake female attention as having game. Maybe it's just his looks, or his parents are loaded and you just don't know about it. Whatever it is, don't stress it. Their attention in him will come and go, especially if he is as boring as you make him sound.

-Scars

 

[The Experience]

You just gave yourself the answer, which is yes. They do have it easier however if you read what you've typed it may only go so far as to have the other person just think about or sometimes approach the other.

This is the same way with men. We see a pretty girl, we approach, this makes it easier for the women.

 

[jtlancer]

Yes, we do. But only for the attraction phase. We can
just as easily flub things up when it comes to seduction and
getting LJBF'd.

 

[thegator39]

Guys like this have the looks advantage, but that is usually where it ends. These are the types of guys that woman use as orbiters. They keep them around for social value and validation. Woman like being seen with attractive people, it makes them feel attractive too. Guys like this tend to be betas, afcs, and emotional tampons. They may get constant female attention, but they usually can't solidify a lay. Unless of course he DOES have good game, but don't count on it. Don't mistake female attention as having game. Maybe it's just his looks, or his parents are loaded and you just don't know about it. Whatever it is, don't stress it. Their attention in him will come and go, especially if he is as boring as you make him sound.

-Scars

This is pure wishful thinking. I'm not saying you have to be one of these guys to get women...but simply having a face that most women love will get you places, including in their pants. Not all of those guys are metro fags.

 

[Scars]

This is pure wishful thinking. I'm not saying you have to be one of these guys to get women...but simply having a face that most women love will get you places, including in their pants. Not all of those guys are metro fags.

It happens, but they will not get anywhere in the long run. Whether it be MALE or FEMALE, anyone who relies on their looks will hit a wall at some point in their life. Everyone will age. Your looks wont be around forever, or maybe just enough people will have had enough of your sh!t in general. Good looking guys with no game end up becoming beta husbands for some crazy psychotic and controlling b!tch. Even if she is hott, who wants that? You will see a trend, watch some of the girls these guys end up dating. These BPD girls have a way of clinging to them especially. It's the perfect recipe. A good looking guy to be seen with will satisfy her hunger for attention. Both negative and positive that she will intensely feed off of. The good looking guy is already sucked in from the first time they have sex, and with her cunning and persuasive ways she will keep him around until he ultimately shrivels and rots away into nothingness, probably letting go of his looks more sooner than you think.

You can also argue that better looking people have more opportunities (as in jobs etc..) which is scientifically proven, but if you're an idiot, then you're still an idiot. These people will simply not make it in life. They will have a rude awakening one day.

To me, a real man works for everything he has.

Would you rather win a million dollars through the lottery or start a thriving business that lands you the same amount, and honestly be able to say "I earned this." ?

-Scars