Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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PreTinder Women. Noticed this?

malz1

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Go to forums of women describing their emotional disposition towards men that they find attractive and you'll find that the majority of preTinder females describe how very nervous they'd get near men whereas in recent forums the majority of post tinder females seem to feel no nervous feelings at all. The latter often make claims suggesting confusion as to how one could even get nervous around men like it's just natural to be confident toward them.

I didn't look through too many sources but it would be interesting for someone to investigate this further. If what I suspect is true, the modern female isn't a "natural" female having been influenced by unnatural technological factors that have shifted the homosapien mating climate in a distorted way.

I believe this would be a good starting point for a scientific study that could lead to significant results.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Of course, this is why I don't use it. Youre just nerfing your own SMV by 50% in an environment like that, where you are a soulless consuker product and women don't have to make an effort. My female friends that use online dating claim that women no longer have to put their best foot forward. But, the same woman in social scenes would trip all over herself trying to win you over versus the competition in the group. If I get a whiff of online dating/serial dating(read: desperate) I don't suffer it. It isn't congruent with my expectations that I developed apart from OLD.
The incidences of nervous reaction vs non nervous reaction I speak of occurred offline. Women can still get butterflies etc but in general they've become significantly more fazed to men.
 

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The thing is maybe 3 years ago, but in tinder, or any of the old sites in general most if the women look like trash with piercings, tattoos, fat, post wall, single moms with kids. Tinder looks like a swipe version of pof now.

Surely not all females look like this. It seems the decent women have given up on old.

Old 7 years ago was okay. Quality and quantity way up. Now with smartphones you just have way too many people on it. With way less normal women on it you have every chad, rich loaded dudes, old men, players, etc. Swarming it over the few decent women left.

I had an old date show me her inbox and it was mind boggling all the messages she had. Literally hundreds. No wonder their options are so huge. Almost overwhelming and she can be desensitized.
 

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Women want to become more like men now. Instead of submitting to them and actually except their own natural design.
Exactly. That’s why so many women brag about their degrees and level of education as that’s somehow supposed to make them more attractive. They think we give two ****s about that, we don’t.
 
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