present for 1 month...wtf?

[tryin 2 play]

tomorrow will be my one month "anniversary" with my girl. I just found out today she spent about $75.00 on a gift/gifts for me!! WTF?!?!

I was just going to get her a card and thats it. Now I don't knowwhat to do, because I feel like I'm going to look cheap. However, spending that muh for one month seems kind of redicoulous to me.

What do you guys think? Any suggestions?

 

[JonJack]

I suggest you stick with the card since that was what you planned on getting her anyway. This could be a very good situation to get to know what type of person your girl is.

She gets you something 'big', you are surprised, all you got her was a card, but you're so happy that she's so generous. But is she? Watch for her response to your card. If she all of a sudden turns cold, you can be sure that she'll always turn cold whenever she feels you're not 'compensating' her enough with material gifts.

And about looking cheap? Why think about it now? You never thought about it until after you found out about your girl's gift. If you didn't know, you would've given her the card anyway. So why change your mind now? Because now you know she's getting you a pricey gift? C'mon man! Don't be so indecisive. Choose a gift and stick with it.

Not knowing what to do becuase you're afraid of looking cheap just tells me that you never really thought anything much about this one month thing. Which is perfectly fine. It's just that you shouldn't be 'telling' your girl something else by getting her something more than you would otherwise give. That is playing to her tune. Play to your tune. The one that says that one month isn't anything grand.

 

[aftershock]

If shes celebrating a ONE MONTH anniversary with you she is either:

- Very high IL
- Desperate
- Clueless

or all those things together.

Don't get her anything. Anniversary means ANNUAL. Not monthly.

 

[flexion_]

You are right a one month gift is rather stupid. 30 days deserved an anniversary? LOL

 

[Obsidian]

Don't get her anything.

If she's cool about it then good. If she was expecting something then take her out.

Good advice

 

[Weak_Game]

Holy crap dont let her settle ground on this, 1 month celebration sh-it. Celebrate 1 year, one month wtf so every month your going to have to drop coin for you guys making it a whole 30 days. Id say maby 6 mo but then 1 year wouldnt be that special. Take what she gives just give her a card if that in return. 1 mo is nothing, most jobs make you stay for 90 days before they give you praise... she may have issues

 

[Julian]

dont accept the gifts