"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was just curious, if you're dating a girl, what prescription meds should you look for that send a red flag this girl is crazy, has problems, etc?

If you could say what the drugs do too that'd be cool, I have no idea when it comes to this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everyone has problems to some degree; I don't believe Charles Manson took any medication, so just because their medicine cabinet is empty doesn't make them any less crazy, and vice versa. What are you doing poking around in her crap anyway?
 
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prozac would be a safe bet
 
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I'd say most of your anti-depressants (I think Paxill is one) or anything truly bizzarre (Ferret tranquilizer, Anti-Schiztophrena) would be things to note.
 
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A little off-topic, but does anyone know for certain whether you can or can't be prescribed Adderall by your general practicioner (family doctor, etc) if you're over the age of 18? I've heard conflicting stories and would like to find a resolution before I wake up at 8am to go to my Dr's appt tomorrow morning...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are you doing poking around in her crap anyway?
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I'm not at all, I'm not even dating anyone atm. I just wanted to be on the lookout for future reference.
 
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