"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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just wondering what u guys think about these two styles of dress, for instance ive tried dressing preppy and i look really good in it but it feels somewhat uncomfortable and unnatural as compared to just sporting some nike shorts/shoes and a tshirt i feel much more comfortable/natural although sometimes it seems like im under-dressing compared to the other guys around.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I do a combination. I wear nice button-up collar shirts & I have a few pairs of some nice khakis. Mostly I wear vintage-worn jeans. I don't ever wear dress shoes, though--always Nike running shoes.

Don't worry about choosing a "theme." Wear what you like & have your own style. I don't ever wear just plain t-shirts, though. Except my undershirts--which are just plain white tshirts--which I'll wear around the house or when I go to the gym.
 

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Of those two I'd go athletic, but neither are really my style.
 

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Be whatever you look good in. I couldn't wear taht Abercrombie ****. I hate it.

I wear EcKo and Nike.
 

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That urban-sporty look is for younger men IMO.

But you can't dress like that all the time.At school I like to under-dress though so I feel you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Last year I wore dress shoes, khaki pants, button up shirts, and all the other stuff.

This year I go with a combination of sporty (my baseball shirts) and khaki pants.

In truth I wear whatever I feel like wearing.
 

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I wouldn't say dressing preppy feels unnatural.

Birkenstock clogs are like walking on clouds... they're incredible
 

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clogs? hahaha

jeans (azzures, girbauds), khakis (****ies, dockers), occasional corduroys

tees (4 for $20), polos (polo rl of course), hoodies, the occasional buttonup

nikes (forces jordans vandals), new balances, timberlands

accessories include fitted hats, watches, sunglasses, whatever catches my eye in the store

and a fat blunt in my mouth
 
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Paisley. It's primal. It's the rage. It's masculine.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ya im 16 normally ill wear like an ae polo w/ hollister jeans some choker/belt and adidas or ae shoes which looks cool and all but i feel way more relaxed just wearing some basketball shorts a funny tshirt and shox shoes, but then again im really athletic and into sports and somewhat popular so its not like im posing either way...
 
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