"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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fuken sucks. im having problems. dont say kegels because they dont do jack squat =\:box:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I recomend rubbing one to two out, a few hours before the date.... Foreplay is always good go from being inside her to fingering, or going down on her, change postions etc.... It will get better or it should..
 
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they have numbing creams that you put on your penis. dulls the feeling.


I know you said not to say kegals... but six months isnt that long if it means you dont have to worry about using thick condoms, numbing creams, or masterbating
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's rough man. I understand exactly how you're feeling. I've been dealing with the same problem on and off for the last few months. Here are a few things I tried that helped me. First, this is most a likely psychological rather than physical. When you stick you d1ck in her you can't be thinking about not blowing your load, or trying to last over a minute, or anything of the sort. The more you worry and think about it, the more stressed you'll become, which will only worsen your problem. Also, DO NOT try and distract yourself by thinking of weird **** that might turn you off so you don't come. This will also only make it go quicker. Try and get in tune with your partner, focus on how everything in your body is feelin, and start enjoying yourself damnit!!

You might also want to try changin a few lifestyle habits. I started running more often (3-4 times a week) as well as started eating healthier. A few weeks later, and I haven't blown my load too early once now since the problem stopped. In fact, now I even have trouble finishing myself off during intercourse, and I couldn't be any happier about it. It's hard to say that any of these ideas were direct cause and effect to stop it, but if nothing else, it helped give me confidence and made me stop worrying so much. DON'T GIVE UP ON THIS. Many girls are very understanding about it, and the ones who aren't usually don't respect you anyway and are just there for a lay. Keep workin on it man, keep us updated
 
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That was mean. I was only joking. It just reminded me of a situation I had once.
 
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Hmmm all very good advice. I just found some Lidocaine cream in my medicine cabinet and I tried that today with my hand. It worked very well. I think I will use this in the meantime. I will also start working out a little more, that will help apparently, and as I am typing, kegals kegals. As for the man who said, "don't think of weird ****", why not? That actually is something that seems to help some amount!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IllaD said:
Hmmm all very good advice. I just found some Lidocaine cream in my medicine cabinet and I tried that today with my hand. It worked very well. I think I will use this in the meantime. I will also start working out a little more, that will help apparently, and as I am typing, kegals kegals. As for the man who said, "don't think of weird ****", why not? That actually is something that seems to help some amount!
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If you numb your penis then won't it also numb her vag (unless maybe the cream completely absorbs into your skin?)
Why would she ever want to have sex with you again if she can't feel anything?


A good tip is to just practice longer when you spank it by going until you are about to orgasm and then stop. Repeat, repeat, repeat.
 
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yeah, rub one out.

I usually last 30 minutes at best on my first orgasm, and that took some toughening up. I've gone up to 4 with some chicks, and believe me...after your first, you won't need to play any mind games to keep yourself from blowing. If anything you'll be ****ing harder and harder.
 
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If you feel you are cumming, kiss her or touch her body and stop the humping. Then continue after a few seconds and you should be fine :)
 
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Two reasons why we ejaculate when we don't want to. We either get too nervous in the beginning or at some point get too tired and lose stamina. Both of those cause us to breathe faster. Breathe slow and deep...really pay attention and even count your breaths if you have to, and you'll be fine! I know from experience dude!!
 
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