"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im confused if its caused by too much masturbation, or too little??
IVe heard if you masturbate before sex, you should last longer, of if you masturbate regularily you can train yourself to last longer.... Also heard you should limit jerking off to 1-2 times a week, or even just intercourse...I dont see how not masturbating helps you last longer...because i think it will make you want to blow even faster...ive been having weird pre mature lately, i think its mostly mental, because my first couple BJ's i lasted 20 min, now i cant even go 5
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hopefully blowing too fast during BJ's isnt your only concern. Don't see why it matters too much in that case.
 

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Mctwist4 said:
Over-masturbation does cause premature ejaculation. Also jelqing and working out the pc muscle can cause it too. Premature ejaculation isn't a natural occurence. Something is up bro. Do some research, however a lot of websites will say to work out your pc muscle. That's a bad idea, and you don't want to do it. Go to www.actionlove.com for the real causes.
Are you joking? God I hope so. BRO, DO MASTURBATE. But use it as a tool to learn to control your pc muscle. Once you can control it, you will ejaculate only when you want.
 

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Are you joking? God I hope so. BRO, DO MASTURBATE. But use it as a tool to learn to control your pc muscle. Once you can control it, you will ejaculate only when you want.
:up:

Masturbating only cause PE if you do it with the goal of coming asap.
 

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Actionlove? Are you ****ting me? That's one of the dumbest sites ever. For one thing, the guy isn't a doctor, he's an engineer. What makes him so qualified?

Second, notice how pretty much everything comes down to buying his magical supplements? Wonder why..

I mean come on, the guy suggests having sex with dogs to supposedly give girls amazing orgasms and there's a section there about too much sex giving you blurred vision. (Ie, masturbation makes you go blind!?)

This guy is the biggest crackpot ever, and I really do sincerely hope you're kidding Mctwist.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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