I'll definitely ask for a DNA test at some stage.
She is 21 years old, according to her she has regular periods never more than a few days off, she has had a stressful time at school but nothing extreme.
I think she won't get the test because she is convinced she is pregnant and doesn't see the point. She alludes to other signs and says she cannot think of any other reason why she would be eight days late.
She seems very worried which is why she goes on about how I must marry her because she thinks her religious parents will reject her if they understood she had a child out of wedlock. She says after three weeks we can divorce and promises she will not ask for any money in the divorce. I said there is no way I am marrying her, and if she wants to keep the baby she must deal with the consequences.
She is quite clear that she does not want to abort, saying it is a sin and she is not a murderer.
In the next sentence she alludes to suicide.
Then she asks me for help with her homework.
It is all quite strange. I keep insisting we go to a doctor together but she says "Next week, I have exams this week and I must study".
There is a slim possibility she is making this all up. The last month or so our relationship has been pretty unstable and I think she realises I am losing interest.
According to her we are broken up and since Im not being supportive and agreeing to marry her, she is going to go to the doctor when it suits her and refuses to meet to talk things over.
I really do not know what to do.
