"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Preferring the slvt over the "nice girl"

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Huffman

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If they are hot as hell, and nice girls are boring, yeah

Nice girls can be freaks in the sack though, you just never know beforehand.
 

Ronaldo7

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Wear two condoms, just in case.
 

Who Dares Win

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It depends from many things, from the mainstream culture and media of the place you live till your hormone levels.

I notice that when I go heavy on the gym and my hormones rise, also my preferences in women change.

Anyway being generally paranoid I feel myself more comfortable with good girls with a kinky side once they get comfortable, this gets the best of both sides.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zekko

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I think it's completely normal, I think most of us go through at least a phase where we opt for multiple, cheap sex opportunities. Just don't go after all slvts and then complain that you never meet a nice girl.
 
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