"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prefering older women to younger ones for dating

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ilikecharlene said:
No, I just don't get on with, nor like, younger women. I just think they're all narcissistic *****es/bags.
Agreed... I can't stand even being around them. You don't have to be intelligent, but these people are ****ing retarded. Can't tolerate all that stupidity. Thing is, this their life. They're all about the drama, games, jumping from this guy to the next, being indecisive, causing problems, and *****ing about said problems. You cant speak intelligence to a ****tard, so it doesn't even pay to bother. They just complain about the pointless **** their lives revolve around. Nothing they say really holds any value. They also think they know everything, and they're too good for others - even if they find them attractive. Again, just the way they are. It's their maturity level and lifestyle. They're all about the status, being hot and popular, having constant excitement (in the worst ways; ie, drama), and dumb **** like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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floydb25 said:
Agreed... I can't stand even being around them. You don't have to be intelligent, but these people are ****ing retarded. Can't tolerate all that stupidity. Thing is, this their life. They're all about the drama, games, jumping from this guy to the next, being indecisive, causing problems, and *****ing about said problems. You cant speak intelligence to a ****tard, so it doesn't even pay to bother. They just complain about the pointless **** their lives revolve around. Nothing they say really holds any value. They also think they know everything, and they're too good for others - even if they find them attractive. Again, just the way they are. It's their maturity level and lifestyle. They're all about the status, being hot and popular, and dumb **** like that.
what is a "****tard"? who says we have to accept others as they are?
 

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You don't have to accept them in the sense that you have tolerate them. You have to accept them in the sense that this is how they are. It's the nature of most younger, attractive people. Hence, why I avoid them. They are just too stupid, shallow, and full of themselves. They think they're smart and perfect, but only in retardland (ie, their lives).

A ****tard is beyond a retard... The word is fu*ktard, if that's what you're wondering.
 

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^ This makes no sense... You say younger women are crazy and only good for sex, then you say older women are not worth dating and only good for sex. So, who IS worth dating?
NONE :D

but in all seriousness think about it for a moment. How many 25 year olds do you see holding hands with 50 year olds? How many 25 year olds do you see making out in a park with a 50 year old?

The age differences make it too difficult to "date" in the sense that young people do and frankly older women don't want to date. Older women want a young guy for the sex because often times men their age are looking at younger women themselves and older women are left out.

Older women don't want younger guys to go out to the movies, they don't want young guys to go out and walk around holding hands, they don't want young guys to go out to the club on the weekends. If you're looking for a woman that wants to have fun and be your girlfriend then find yourself a young one. Older women want a guy that's going to satisfy their sexual needs.

If an older woman wants to "date" she is going to look for a man her age.
 

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Older women will rock your socks off, no drama. They know what they like and will let you know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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F: Well, that's weird... I find the opposite to be true. Young girls just want to have sex and party; olderish women are looking for relationships. The older women are also more interested in nicer folks, and tend to be nicer themselves.

I tried dating both, and the young ones are just too stupid to bare. They're hot, and have that purity in their skin, but their minds are just gone. They don't understand anything, and don't seem to think. Way too childish and immature. I can't connect with one, and vice versa. There is no compatibility whatsoever. None of them are relationship-minded, or want to settle down. They also tend to be more snobby and cruel.

For a time, I wanted to go back to missed opportunities, since I started dating late, but I wasn't really missing anything by going with the 18-23 year olds. It felt like I was a provider or father figure more than anything. They werent mature, healthy relationships by any means. Just a lot of headaches and stupidity. And they never stop *****ing about the dumbest ****. They also play too many retarded games, and act like spoiled children.

But, by old I mean 25+. Not 50, or whatever.
 
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