I know I harp on the fact that in order to be a good DJ, you must be able to adapt, you must be able to change, and you must have more than one play in your playbook, because as in football there is no play that will beat every team every time, just as there is no one method that will get every girl everytime.
For those of you who disagree with me look at this. I know students of the C&F school, I know guys who practice it, and use it, but guess what, that becomes predictable too.
See if you use C&F all the time, she is waiting for the catch, the punch line, the insult if you will.
If you have a tendency not to call her for 5-6 days at a time, that will also become predictable to her.
Do you guys ever hear your girls say things like "I knew you wouldn't call", "I knew you would say something like that" or I knew that is what your reaction would be"? See even C&F becomes predictable.
Think about it If you constantly say things like "That is a nice dress..........my grandmother has one just like it" she is going to become conditioned to that. Think how effective (and unpredictable) a "Those are some really nice shoes" and a sincere smile would be if she is used to the "neg hit"
For those of you who disagree with me look at this. I know students of the C&F school, I know guys who practice it, and use it, but guess what, that becomes predictable too.
See if you use C&F all the time, she is waiting for the catch, the punch line, the insult if you will.
If you have a tendency not to call her for 5-6 days at a time, that will also become predictable to her.
Do you guys ever hear your girls say things like "I knew you wouldn't call", "I knew you would say something like that" or I knew that is what your reaction would be"? See even C&F becomes predictable.
Think about it If you constantly say things like "That is a nice dress..........my grandmother has one just like it" she is going to become conditioned to that. Think how effective (and unpredictable) a "Those are some really nice shoes" and a sincere smile would be if she is used to the "neg hit"