Pre-pick up journal

[ssj4halo]

I am getting a 2 week break in about 2 weeks. I will go to the mall and spend 4 hours picking up chicks and tryin to get all of this down. A intro about me. I have been reading pick up stuff for over a year. I guess you can call me one of those "read everythin till I get everything" Anyways. I sarged time to time over the past year with little progress. Overall, Im still a virgin, and the closest I got was is making out with a chick(and a gf who I didn't escalate on)

This summer I pretty much shut myself down social wise and hit the gym hard. I had very low confidence. I gained 15 pounds this summer, 155 now(only 5 8' :[). I started thinking maybe I am ready to sarge girls again..

I was a new guy. New clothes, Not as skinny, much more confidence...

Anyways, back to the good part. Today, i figured I might as well try and sarge for real. With the intention of sarging if you know what I mean. I went to safeway(Grocery Store) and told myself I will talk to 5 chick. Boy was I proud for doing this....

for the first 20 minutes, I literally cound't talk to anyone. I coudn't even say "excuse me" to get something from the aisle when they were next to it...

I talked to one of the safeway clients about where the peanut butter was. After that, things got better.

2nd chick: I was in the tupperware section and she was nearby, HB 8
I swear this is the chick I dream about getting with.

Me: Hey can i ask a favor, do you know which tupperware is good? Im new to this and I don't know what to use.
HB8: (in a very open mattter): yea, blh blah blah
I then mentioned about ziplog bags.
HB8: what are you storing? Use this for blah blah and this for blah blah .....
Me:Oh..just for some chicken.
After she told me I said thanks and went away.

3rd chick(HB7)

Me: wow I cant beleive these chips ahoy cookies come in oatmeal flavor
HB7: YEAH, what the heck. i bet they taste horrible
(talked about other cookies, joked about her getting oreos)
HB7:So do you go to Davis? (IOI, i was REALLY shocked)
Me; Yea, I am a third year here you?
HB7: I just moved up here blahblah
More fluff talk
BH7: Whats your name? (IOI WHAT THE HECK? NICE)
Me: blah
Fluff talk
Me: Hey I got to be going actually, we should meet up later and get some coffee.
HB7: Oh i don't know, I am kinda busy right now. My ride is getting groceries and im just accomanying her.
Me: Oh, i meant later.
HB7: yea SURE, but I have no phone. It went in the toilet and broke. But hey, you can reach me on facebook!
Me: Yea, that sounds great. (exchange names again, handshake, then she literally speeds walks away lol EVEN THOUGH i said I have to get going lol?)

4th chick: (HB 8.5, MILF!!)
Looking in the deli section. I was checking out this one on sale for 1.99. HB8.5 comes to me and grabs one)
Me: Its a bargain!!
HB8: I KNOW. wow. so cheap. Im going to get some.
fluff talk
Me: There are so many flavors(only 2 flavors lol)
HB8: Yea(laughs) fluff
Then she walks away...

5th chick: azn grad student, 2 years older than me HB 6 i think?
She is picking LOTS of pasta noodle stuff

Me: I don't know which pasta sause to pick..
HB6: Yea there are so many!!
Me: Any suggestions?
HB6: I never cooked pasta before!! Im as lost as you
Fluff talk
HB6: Let me call my friendd!! He can tell us which one is good
Calls friend, more fluff talk about food in general for about TWENTY minutes! and some kino too!!!
Fluff
HB6: Whats your name?? (OMG AGAIN???)
fluff talk
Me: Wow, I really got to be going.
HB6: It was REALLY nice meeting you
Me: Yea, hey. We should meet up for some coffee later.(debating if I should just leave, why would she date a younger guy???)
HB6: Yea SURE!. Im new here, nice to meet a new friend(uh oh...)
HB6: (pulls out her phone gets my number then CALLS me without me asking for her number)
Me: Yea, it was nice meeting you, I got to go.
HB6: you too!!
I leave

That one chick I said I wanted to be with(2nd chick) Kept coming near me afterwards. I had no balls to go up and ask her out. she was HOT!! But its okay, I might run into her again at safeway

Overall. WOW. I never knew I would be this ahead. I am really happy for myself. I cant wait for my 100+ chick jig in two weeks. I'll keep you guys updated on future field reports. :]

 

[rushing dude 123]

Great job dude, if u can do those chicks while there shopping u can do them anyway. I think ur doing just fine for now, the chicks seemed to of opened up to u 2 and u seem happy with ur result. Go out there and get more field work done.

Try out some new things has well.

 

[Aristotle]

It is not hard to over analyze an approach, but the way you are initiating conversation gives the girl an impression that you are in the moment. Continue to use your atmosphere as a means to initiate the approach. For it is creepy if you give the impression that you are in a grocery store or wherever specifically to talk to women. What you are doing avoids this. Good job because even though initiating the approach through your atmosphere can be found all over this site, an atmosphere is something that is relative, so no matter how much you read to do so, one has to be in the moment to do it well. Thus, you are able to give the impression of being in the moment because you actually are in it.

A suggestion I could offer you is about the coffee invitation. Just like an atmospheric approach, a generic line can work, but it is not as effective. While you are in your small talk with the girl, try to deduce her interests to see if you have a common denominator. Hell, even if you do not enjoy an interest she has, if you tell her you have always wanted to do that it will score you some points. This takes care of the possibility of her not liking the offering, which gives more incentive for her to accept your invitation to get to know one another better.

 

[ssj4halo]

The atmosphere paragraph was gold. Wow.

I hated being skinny. I was so obsessed with getting bigger that nutrition and working out became such a big part of my life. Especially, the past 2-3 months. I came to know so much about different foods and such. I'll try to use this to help out with my pick ups.

But I totally understand what you mean about the coffee thing. I will try to see what she likes to do and try to initate us doing it.

Thanks again! I'll will update with new field reports soon!