"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pre date warm ups

blackbelt2k

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I figure this is something alot of us would be interested in.. Pre date warm up, you to get a nice muscle pump, posture correct, etc.

I have been doing those hindu bombs backbreaker suggested before a date. They really pump my shoulders, abs, and chest, and back up..

Add some suggestions so we can all make us of a common knowledge to get some puntang.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Why not just work out and eat well all the time? Wouldn't you rather have a more permanent "pump"?
 

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no, you misunderstood...this is for before you go on a date (you should already be exercising regularly)
 

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blackbelt2k said:
no, you misunderstood...this is for before you go on a date (you should already be exercising regularly)

Whatever floats your sailboat, man. Personally, I just dress to kill.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shrug, I don't see why not. They wear padded bras so you might as well lie to them too.
 
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