I'm a 17 year old English (moved when I was 11) high school senior and have read many dating books and newsletters for the last several months. The advice I have received has been excellent, and I have definately had increased success, the C + F techniques go with my dry, sarcastic, quick witted sense of humor very well. My problem, however, is internal.
I am a good looking guy, and am considered "hot" at my school, but I dont get nearly enough ass as I should. The thing is, I know I can but I feel awkward and shy around girls for the most part, and lack much in the way of self confidence. I guess this unhappy, unsure attitude is typical for teenagers but Ive been putting up with it for long enough. Instead of wanting to learn techniques I want to start of from the inside, becoming proud to be who I am, instead of constantly questioning myself and wondering why any girl would ever want to spend time with me. I want to become completely self confident, optimistic, and happy, to the point where girls no longer even matter to me- the same point at which, ironically, the girls start streaming into your life.
Now, dont get me wrong, Im not a complete reject when it comes to dating, I have hooked up with and dated several very cute girls, but I dont feel as confident as I know I should/could be and I really want to sort this out. This problem also carries over to all otehr aspets of my life, such as my incounters with friends, family, etc. I just want to become the alpha male.
Im going to try to turn my life around. Over the past several months I have bought a number of books about being happy, optimistic, confident etc., including some about NLP and self hypnosis. I want to spend the next month or so reading and rereading all of this and absorbing the material. Basically, i want to transform from a boy to a man. Do you have any advice? Any books/materials/exercises that you can recomend to me? I am very confident that I can become who I want to be.
In a nutshell...im going to college next fall and by that time i want to become THE alpha male, i want to become the guy women want and other guys respect- the biggest pimp on campus.
Thanks in advance
I am a good looking guy, and am considered "hot" at my school, but I dont get nearly enough ass as I should. The thing is, I know I can but I feel awkward and shy around girls for the most part, and lack much in the way of self confidence. I guess this unhappy, unsure attitude is typical for teenagers but Ive been putting up with it for long enough. Instead of wanting to learn techniques I want to start of from the inside, becoming proud to be who I am, instead of constantly questioning myself and wondering why any girl would ever want to spend time with me. I want to become completely self confident, optimistic, and happy, to the point where girls no longer even matter to me- the same point at which, ironically, the girls start streaming into your life.
Now, dont get me wrong, Im not a complete reject when it comes to dating, I have hooked up with and dated several very cute girls, but I dont feel as confident as I know I should/could be and I really want to sort this out. This problem also carries over to all otehr aspets of my life, such as my incounters with friends, family, etc. I just want to become the alpha male.
Im going to try to turn my life around. Over the past several months I have bought a number of books about being happy, optimistic, confident etc., including some about NLP and self hypnosis. I want to spend the next month or so reading and rereading all of this and absorbing the material. Basically, i want to transform from a boy to a man. Do you have any advice? Any books/materials/exercises that you can recomend to me? I am very confident that I can become who I want to be.
In a nutshell...im going to college next fall and by that time i want to become THE alpha male, i want to become the guy women want and other guys respect- the biggest pimp on campus.
Thanks in advance
