Practicing on Dummy Girl

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

h2o

Banned

Aug 31, 2005

Originally posted by DJDamage
I know a dude who once told me that he went down on a chick who had a strange taste and odur and he felt something wet and sticky on his face and nose, so after he was done he looked in the miror and his face was covered with blood. The chick never told him she was on her period!! that is messed up alright.

hey thanks Damage, yeah, that guy you spoke of sounds almost exactly like my situation. and i didn't know her so well.

yeah, i read LIT's response...it's similar to something he wrote me...damn, he's very right. i got very lucky, and i'm never going "down south" again.

sh*t had i read that thread, i wouldn't have been in this situation, but thanks still. i definitely learned from this.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.