"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Practicing kissing with a girl?

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So there's this girl (year younger than me) and her and I talk a lot on MSN...tonight though, is different.

We start talking about boyfriends and girlfriends. I've never had a girlfriend. She hasn't either but she's also kissed six guys. I am honest and tell her I haven't kissed any girls. She says:

"I'll kiss you..."

We start talking. She wants to do this badly, too. I come up with the plan that we meet somewhere one day and "practice kissing"...

...I know she kinda "likes" me but I don't know if this is just "practice". Never heard of anything like this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just get together with her and **** the *****. simple as that
 
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I've kinda never done anything like that. It will definately be weird...
 
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well I guess if you think kissing is weird then sex is definitely going to be a big thing. Read some tips from the bible about it.
 
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Darn...my computer won't open the damn things up. Could someone post some important notes from the Bible that might help me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just chill... its only a big deal if you make it one....if its a big deal in your minds you might get nervous and **** things up for yourself....
 
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yes, she likes you a lot. she wouldnt kiss you otherwise


so now tell her you want to practice humping


jsut kidding
 
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Thanks guys.

But the other reason why it feels so weird is because...

I like this other girl (if you've read my previous posts you'd know) and I recently took the advice of MANY of my friends by deleting her from my MSN, after losing all hope in whatever kind of relationship we had (I don't even think you can call it that, she has/had a boyfriend but was trying to squeeze the words "I like you" out of me, and acting very AFC-ish, I eventually gave in...) Then she just wouldn't talk to me. So I deleted her because small talk annoys me very much and I can't handle tension and stress that well. There was a LOT of that there.

So a week and a half later, her friend logs on. I'm expecting a normal convo when...

"Why did you block ______?"

I don't know what to say...hi?

"I didn't."

"Secrets and lies..." She was obviously there with her. But they didn't know that I knew, so I went on.

"I just thought that she didn't want to talk to me so I just deleted her. I didn't think she'd care."

But she does. I think this might be giving me false hope on this relationship. What do I do? F*** the girl but still talk to this one?
 
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Originally posted by level006
Thanks guys.

But the other reason why it feels so weird is because...

I like this other girl (if you've read my previous posts you'd know) and I recently took the advice of MANY of my friends by deleting her from my MSN, after losing all hope in whatever kind of relationship we had (I don't even think you can call it that, she has/had a boyfriend but was trying to squeeze the words "I like you" out of me, and acting very AFC-ish, I eventually gave in...) Then she just wouldn't talk to me. So I deleted her because small talk annoys me very much and I can't handle tension and stress that well. There was a LOT of that there.

So a week and a half later, her friend logs on. I'm expecting a normal convo when...

"Why did you block ______?"

I don't know what to say...hi?

"I didn't."

"Secrets and lies..." She was obviously there with her. But they didn't know that I knew, so I went on.

"I just thought that she didn't want to talk to me so I just deleted her. I didn't think she'd care."

But she does. I think this might be giving me false hope on this relationship. What do I do? F*** the girl but still talk to this one?
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No don't worry about the one you blocked. You pretty much screwed your chances with her for now at least.

And for the future, one thing you could have said for why you blocked her was that one of your friend's did it.
 
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Originally posted by benassi
just get together with her and **** the *****. simple as that

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA well said sir...

bro - check this site out --

http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/

do some reading, should take u about 30 min to read through the whole site if u have half a brain, and then from there on you should impress her.. because that's what us DJ's do :woo:
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THIS WEBSITE KICKS ASS.
When I was a n00b here I used to go on there. It's a very good website, very helpful. I have kissed way too many girls now, and they all like it... hahahhahahahha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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be agressive in your kissing techniques. I like to do all kinda of wild ****...id bite her lip, leave her out of breath, go down to her neck bite her...seriously, whenever were laying down and shes on top of me i can always feel their heartbeat and its like 150 beats per minute....Sometimes ive commented on that and theyre like "yea is because you turn me on!!", i dont really get excited during kissing like heart rate wise, so im just like god damn chill
 
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She wants to kiss you so take the oppurtunity to try kissing out and to maybe get some of that ho bag slut ***** ***** **** cooter stinky ****.
 
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