"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Me and a 2 of my friends were out in a parking lot one night and we saw 3 girls. Two were about HB8s, but they were just 15, which are way too young and illegal, and another girl was was 20, but about 20 lbs overweight, but with big boobs. I'd call her a Hb5. The Hb5 was wearing a skimpy shirt showing her cleavege, and she did have some big boobs I must admit, even though she was overweight. So, I really wasn't intimidated at all, so I get to talking to her just for the hell of it and to practice, and I ask her age, name, **** like that. And, because I know I really didn't care what the outcome was, and I knew I wouldn't hit it, even if she offered, out of the blue I say to her, "Are your boobs real?" She started laughing really really hard and didn't stop laughing and turned around and just kept laughing, like no guy has ever said something like that to her. So, I thought she was done talking to me, so I said fvck it and started talking to my friend. Then, about a minute later, she turns around and looks right in my eyes in a serious voice and says, "Yes, my boobs are real." I was like, "Ok." I know I could have hit it if I wanted to, but she didn't meet my looks standards so I didn't go for a fvck or number close. I thought saying something like that about her boobs would be a terrible thing to say really, but she didn't seem to mind and took it well. I don't know if a better looking girl would have went for that or not.

Sometimes I have a habit of being kind of blantant in what I say to chicks, so my question is, has anyone else had any experiences saying something like that to a hotter babe and how do the hotter ones take comments like that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ryannath said:
I thought saying something like that about her boobs would be a terrible thing to say really, but she didn't seem to mind and took it well.
Exactly man. Chicks can be just as 'dirty' as guys in the right situation.

ryannath said:
Sometimes I have a habit of being kind of blantant in what I say to chicks, so my question is, has anyone else had any experiences saying something like that to a hotter babe and how do the hotter ones take comments like that?
As you would expect they get compliments/attention more often so it's not as 'powerful'. They're def. not going to slap you or anything. So just do it!
 

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^^Thanks for your imput man. Anyone else had any experience in saying something pretty blantant to a hotter chick, and how'd she take it?
 

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treat all woman the same..

its called having a 'give a fvck' attitude. It pays to keep it up with all woman. It aint as simple as just saying whatever the hell you like though. You need to combine that attitude with other inner game and reading their responses etc etc. Like you couldnt have said that to alot of hot girls, they wouldve just thought ur a sleaze and walked off if it came off wrong.. Ugly girls (especially ones in skimpy outfits) are usually more leanient cos they are desperate.
 

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I pretty much say some rude and crude things to some women. One of the gals that I train in gym put a bottle of water between her thighs the other night because I was always flirting with her by stealing her water. When she put the bottle there I said "I'm not going to even attempt to take it now...my hand may slip and may end of getting lost in that bucket of water between your thighs" She smiled shyly and slapped me! She wants it!:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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^^Man, was it a hard slap, like she was pissed off? If it was, I don't think she wants it. Or, was it a light playful slap like she was flirting? And anointed, you say to "treat all females the same." But, then you say, I can't say that to the hotter chicks. Those are complete opposite things.
 

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ryannath said:
^^Man, was it a hard slap, like she was pissed off? If it was, I don't think she wants it. Or, was it a light playful slap like she was flirting? And anointed, you say to "treat all females the same." But, then you say, I can't say that to the hotter chicks. Those are complete opposite things.
Well it sorta stung for half second, but it was a playfull slap done with a smirk on her face. HB's still respond to good bantering, you just have to have your right face on when you do it. A lot of guys are scared of HB's and therefore won't joke with them. Make sure YOU are the different one!
 

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hello friends, my name is joao i'm from brasil rio de janeiro
i have dificulties in conversation girls
please help me my contact in istant messager is [email protected]
the brazilian girls is beautiful but i have problem in aproaching tecniques women
ok good bye

joao apollonio
 
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