"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"practice" dates

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I just went on this date... Girl was totally not my type. A bit too much of an AFC (what do we call female AFCs anyway? Gotta change that C to something else.) I could've taken things further than just a pleasant night out. Started with slightly unnatural conversation + kino, but quickly got a decent comfortable vibe. I had a few moments for a kiss (a few! you know the girl isn't too interesting when she gives a few!), but decided there was no need to move any further seeing as she just doesn't click nicely with me.

My question to you:
What you guys think of arranging dates that you KNOW aren't going anywhere, and I don't mean sticking to only going out with girls for LTRs ( we aren't always looking for that ;))... I mean, dates that for whatever reason, you really aren't that interested in?

The pros I see are that I got to use it as an a test ground... I tried telling different stories, made sure my body language and kino was good, and scoped out an area of town for future dates.
The cons? Well, you're leading someone on needlessly and it's a bit of a waste of time.

What do you guys think of "practicing?" I want to know your thoughts, sosuave!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Every date is a "practice" date.

Remember one thing, no matter the outcome, sometimes you win sometimes you learn. Once you have enough under your belt, you'll know what to do in most situations with most type of dates.
 

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handle said:
I just went on this date... Girl was totally not my type. A bit too much of an AFC (what do we call female AFCs anyway? Gotta change that C to something else.)
Average Fustrated ****s! :crackup:
 
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