"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Practical tips for cold approaching.

Kirro

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Asking those experienced with cold approaching and eventually getting laid via this method.

I've recently started cold approaching again. I talk to females whenever I see them. I've approached around 10 so far in the last week or so. And a friend and I have an aim to approach at least 5 a day.

What are some general tips you'd suggest?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PlayHer Man

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The best tip I can possibly give you is to enjoy yourself. Approach them the same way you would approach a friend you see in public --> Relaxed, confident, casual, etc.

To maximize your success rate.. you need to live in the moment without concern for the outcome. No pushing or forcing anything. Just flirt and chat. Once she relaxes and sees you mean no harm.. close the deal --> ABC = Always Be Closing.

- Get her name
- Flirt / Crack a joke
- Give her a proposition (casually)

Women are dumb and often mistake game, lies and charm for a "connection". :crackup:

One of my favorite lines --> "You're so much fun. Not uptight like most women."

Romantic connections are about "feelings" not "thoughts" to women. Sogimmicks, canned lines and nervousness make you seem inferior and desperate. Inferior men don't make a vag wet.

One more tip few people will give --> Accept whatever reaction you get.. good or bad. Men with options don't need to kiss a*s. Give her your proposition and allow her to accept it or rejected it. Your indifference to rejection vs. success will make you more magnetic and give you a very sexy bad boy aura. :up:

But make sure you HAVE FUN. If you don't enjoy flirting with women.. you will fail. Bad energy is the biggest c0ck blocker around.
 

dasein

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Talk to lots of people, not just women you find attractive. Can't count the number of times I've started up with some older woman or even man and lo and behold, the hotty or hotties they are with turn up out of the blue. Remember people's names, be memorable to them. Then when you are around people you know and meet new women, it's much warmer. Nothing better than having someone who works at the market call your name and say "hey" in earshot of attractive women you are about to approach. Agree with other posters also other than the texting part. Call on the phone IMO is much better than text.
 
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