"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Power of Now

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This book is probably the best book I ever read. I highly recommend it. I read all of the gaming material out you know. Since the beg, when Mystery Method came out. When RSD came out....juggler, all this pook stuff, DJ bible, and a load of other crap. I even joined a "Lair" in my town. Nothing worked out for me. Nothing.

I am working on myself, doing my own thing. This book taught me to be confident on who I am. It gives you a surge of positive feelings. Kinda similar to RSD blue print, but at an even higher level.

Yea, at the end of the day, the "secret" is to actually go out and practice. BUt this book teaches you one of the biggest things a lot of people on this forum have problems with. To find confidence within oneself. Not on external crap(looks, money, etc), but just yourself. After reading this book you have the power to be happy, to find that inner peace, despite whatever kind of situation you are in. You can get rid of ANY negative emotion WHENEVER you want.

I hate making claims like this cause I am a very doubtful person. But if nothing else is working for you guys, give this a shot. Im 100% it will work as long as your open minded.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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