"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Potential Trouble At Work...Need Advice

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ThinWhiteDuke

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I've been going hardcore into game theory these past few months by studying the works of Deangelo, Vitalio, Style and many others with every free minute of time I have. To say I'm obsessed at this point would be an understatement, but I'm having a hell of a lot of fun so I consider it a healthy obsesssion.

Well, I have made one very dumb mistake because I've been running some game on girls in my office for practice purposes. I do not want to date anyone in my office, but I really had no idea how potent this stuff was gonna be when I started learning and practicing it.

My problem is that some of these woman are now attracted and many of them are making excuses to hang around my desk often. They're asking a lot of buying questions and one even asked me today if I wanted children (that's when the "uh-oh I've gone too far" lightbulb flickered on). I obviously need to tone it down but I don't want to just turn it off completely and run the risk of a lot of resentment from women I have to see at work every day. How to handle??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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joekerr31

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the easiest way to handle all this is to look at the attributes these women DONT have and then sneak it in that you're looking for those characteristics in a woman.

so "do you want kids?"

"yep. but i want to find a woman who isn't desperately looking to have kids first."

haha.

generally speaking once the women are into you, they will push it until they get you to like them, or they will just walk away. very few are able to stay in the gray zone forever.

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The skillsets you learn in PU--confidence, frame-setting, body language, etc.--can be transferred to other areas of your life. It's only natural that people will gravitate toward you.

However, if you are throwing a sexual vibe towards these ladies, or getting into Negs, Qualifying & Challenging, Push/Pull, etc., then you are asking for trouble. Don't go down this road at work. Yes, this stuff is powerful and will work on some bored married women but save it for the clubs, and you'll save your job.

GL..................Lesson
 
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