So my ex has put on weight, she broke up with her thug boyfriend and moved to her mothers and now I get to see my kid on a regular basis. Well she's been hanging around when she drops my kid off. She's been bringing me food, cooking for me, buying me stuff, and wanting to do things alone. I've made it a point to never be alone with her.
Last weekend I found myself in the house alone with her, the roommate and friends had stepped out, the kids were down the street playing and I was folding clothes and cleaning when she comes in my room. We have so polite conversation and when I sat down on the bed she tries to kiss me. I was like WTF?
She then tells me how much she misses me and how much of a good dad I am. Then she tells me how long its been since she's had sex and goes on about how good I'm looking. LOL I was thinking to myself, run that game girl! Tell me I'm pretty! haha. I pretty much shut her down, I thanked her for the compliment and told her that I'm sure she'd find someone. Long story short, She proposed an FB arrangement. I told her I didn't think it was fair to our daughter and that being friends was probably the best way to go.
Anyway shes been blowing me up on text and phone calls all week. I rarely answer as I'm busy and I don't want to hear her prattle on about BS. I call at the same time I always do to talk to my daughter, and now she jumps on before I can get off to chat.
Honestly, I play up the beta. I complain about being broke, about working all the time. I tell her my child support is too much (I'm applying for a reduction). She actually sympathizes with me? What the hell? I play up the beta because I don't want her attracted to me, but that seems to have backfired, she's acting more attracted than ever. Why? Because she's hit the wall, her SMV is nil, and she's got no other options to be honest.
Anyway...I'm trying to walk the line to keep her on my side until I get my CS reduced, so this could be awesome, or tragedy. But, at least I know what I want. More money in my pocket.
Last weekend I found myself in the house alone with her, the roommate and friends had stepped out, the kids were down the street playing and I was folding clothes and cleaning when she comes in my room. We have so polite conversation and when I sat down on the bed she tries to kiss me. I was like WTF?
She then tells me how much she misses me and how much of a good dad I am. Then she tells me how long its been since she's had sex and goes on about how good I'm looking. LOL I was thinking to myself, run that game girl! Tell me I'm pretty! haha. I pretty much shut her down, I thanked her for the compliment and told her that I'm sure she'd find someone. Long story short, She proposed an FB arrangement. I told her I didn't think it was fair to our daughter and that being friends was probably the best way to go.
Anyway shes been blowing me up on text and phone calls all week. I rarely answer as I'm busy and I don't want to hear her prattle on about BS. I call at the same time I always do to talk to my daughter, and now she jumps on before I can get off to chat.
Honestly, I play up the beta. I complain about being broke, about working all the time. I tell her my child support is too much (I'm applying for a reduction). She actually sympathizes with me? What the hell? I play up the beta because I don't want her attracted to me, but that seems to have backfired, she's acting more attracted than ever. Why? Because she's hit the wall, her SMV is nil, and she's got no other options to be honest.
Anyway...I'm trying to walk the line to keep her on my side until I get my CS reduced, so this could be awesome, or tragedy. But, at least I know what I want. More money in my pocket.
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