Alright guys, this isn’t a really a question per se, but I’d like to hear if anyone has had a similar experience (I’m figuring people have), I could use some advice.
Background:
Met up with a group of people through my buddy. He went to college with a few, and now that we’re out, I’ve been hanging out with this social circle on occasion…There are some fun guys, and hot girls, and I’ve been getting to know the ladies, a few more intimately than some others, but all in all, we have fun…
There is this very attractive blond, whom I thought was one of the two hottest girls in the bunch. I was macking on her and another girl (whom my buddy ended up in a quasi-relationship that failed this past weekend). In any case, playing both sides of the fence, they went for other guys that night (my buddy getting this other girl). So this attractive girl that was giving me signs, seems like she’s single, but she is being somewhat pursued from this AFC type guy who hasn’t made a move in the month or so we’ve been hanging out.
I was out with them this weekend, and she seemed to be around me most the night, and we chatted, danced, and had a blast, to tell you the truth, I didn’t put any DJ philosophies or anything. I just had fun, and she was obviously having fun too.
Well this AFC guy comes over every so often to talk with her, and to tell you the truth, I found ways to be away from the situation when this happened (got a drink, bathroom, find other people)
So I basically want this girls number, yet I’m not sure as to the ramifications of our friend dynamic as I would from the AFC perspective be “stealing” his target…And I’m a relatively new guy to their scene.
You’d probably think the story ends here, like I’m some AFC that’s going to freak out and be timid in the situation……HELL NO…
So I asked her if there was a deal between the two of them, and she made it very apparent that he was not in the picture (not sure as to his perspective of the situation). I told her I wanted to take her out sometime and have some fun, she seemed enthusiastic…So she typed her # in my cell….
I’m not sure when I can hang out being as it’s the holidays, but I plan on it before new years…(I’m guessing she’ll be out with that crew and the AFC, while I’ll be at an open bar trying to score some more ladies…)
So the cliffnotes of this being the AFC guy is going to be upset, as I know he likes this girl, and I don’t want to turn this whole scenario into a Melrose place, type scandel…On the other hand, im not going to let this hottie just slip through my fingers…How should I handle this the next time we all hang out? The funny thing being one of our big links was the fact my buddy was quasi dating this girl that has now fizzled out….
Too many details I know, but I wanted to lay out the situation…I’m not stressing over it, just curious how these things have played out before for people….Thanks crew….
Background:
Met up with a group of people through my buddy. He went to college with a few, and now that we’re out, I’ve been hanging out with this social circle on occasion…There are some fun guys, and hot girls, and I’ve been getting to know the ladies, a few more intimately than some others, but all in all, we have fun…
There is this very attractive blond, whom I thought was one of the two hottest girls in the bunch. I was macking on her and another girl (whom my buddy ended up in a quasi-relationship that failed this past weekend). In any case, playing both sides of the fence, they went for other guys that night (my buddy getting this other girl). So this attractive girl that was giving me signs, seems like she’s single, but she is being somewhat pursued from this AFC type guy who hasn’t made a move in the month or so we’ve been hanging out.
I was out with them this weekend, and she seemed to be around me most the night, and we chatted, danced, and had a blast, to tell you the truth, I didn’t put any DJ philosophies or anything. I just had fun, and she was obviously having fun too.
Well this AFC guy comes over every so often to talk with her, and to tell you the truth, I found ways to be away from the situation when this happened (got a drink, bathroom, find other people)
So I basically want this girls number, yet I’m not sure as to the ramifications of our friend dynamic as I would from the AFC perspective be “stealing” his target…And I’m a relatively new guy to their scene.
You’d probably think the story ends here, like I’m some AFC that’s going to freak out and be timid in the situation……HELL NO…
So I asked her if there was a deal between the two of them, and she made it very apparent that he was not in the picture (not sure as to his perspective of the situation). I told her I wanted to take her out sometime and have some fun, she seemed enthusiastic…So she typed her # in my cell….
I’m not sure when I can hang out being as it’s the holidays, but I plan on it before new years…(I’m guessing she’ll be out with that crew and the AFC, while I’ll be at an open bar trying to score some more ladies…)
So the cliffnotes of this being the AFC guy is going to be upset, as I know he likes this girl, and I don’t want to turn this whole scenario into a Melrose place, type scandel…On the other hand, im not going to let this hottie just slip through my fingers…How should I handle this the next time we all hang out? The funny thing being one of our big links was the fact my buddy was quasi dating this girl that has now fizzled out….
Too many details I know, but I wanted to lay out the situation…I’m not stressing over it, just curious how these things have played out before for people….Thanks crew….