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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Postpone date because of cold sore?

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Hey,

so there's this HB, I know for sure she likes me a lot and we made out last week at a birthday party, though we were both pretty drunk. Anyway, we set up a date for today. This morning I woke up and I have two cold sores on my lower lip. It's not like it's too noticable but even if I meet her, I won't be able to kiss her or do anything. So how should I play this? Just call her and tell her I'm not feeling well and I'll call her and set up a new date as soon as it's gone?

I just feel like it'd be awkward for our "first date" (sort of) if I knew that I couldn't do anything. Thoughts, postpone or just go and not kiss/do anything?

Thanks in advance
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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On a first date, I think not kissing her would do as much damage (or more) as rescheduling the date.

Maybe just tell her work's getting out of control and ask her what her sched is like for next week.

In the meantime apply plenty of ColdSore-FX and 1000mg of L-Lysine three times a day. :up:
 
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"Hey, something came up and I have to reschedule tonight. What days are you free next week?"
 
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She probably gave you the damn cold sores!
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey, thanks for the quick replies! What I ended doing was telling her that I'm not feeling well and won't be making it tonight. I also told her that I'll call her when I feel better and that we can set up another date then.

She replied something about get well soon bla bla. I'll call her when the cold sores are gone and see where it goes. Even if doesn't turn out, there's a million more chicks out there! Thanks again everyone, I love this forum!
 
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Albatross953 said:
She probably gave you the damn cold sores!
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^^^^^^^Yep!

Get Abreva and pop it on 3X a day. Play it cool for the next 2 weeks.....shıt takes a while to clear up completely.
 
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Tudeeee said:
This morning I woke up and I have two cold sores on my lower lip...Thoughts, postpone or just go and not kiss/do anything?
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I would have postponed.

I get cold sores too, and i always make it a habit to go out as little as possible when this happens.
 
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