"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Posting snaps with different girls every week

TheGambino

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Is it good or bad for plates (serious ones, and backburners) to see that you hang out and have fun with different ladies every week? I think they might find you dirty or whatever because they assume I hit all that and might get turned off... Ive seen ladies give me extra attention when they know I see a lot of different girls. I see ladies that back off completeley, the get hurt. Ofcourse my snaps show that they are intoo me, dancing with me and having a good time... Not sure if I should go on with that or keep it a mysterie
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I deleted my snapchat story. It's too much, it will look like im overdoing it, like im making girls jealous on purpose. I don't want to be seen as a pimp since im looking for a LTR right now and I got all my potential and actual plates on snapchat.
 

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i dont mess with snapchat anymore...yeah showing people how much fun and cool stuff your doing can have a benefit but ask yourself why your doing it...to get ass from women or to get a ego boost from people watching your story etc?

idk personally i prefer to keep up the mystery
 
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