Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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thatsexytaiwanguy

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I have been getting many girls interested in me lately. My body is super ripped- I do sports. i had a picture of me with my shirt off on facebook and one of the girls " who wants to hook me up with her sister" said that she first thought i was into myself. do girls actually like it or do are against it at first?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vypros

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That's the kind of reaction you WANT from a girl.

Anytime a girl says any of the following things (this isn't an all inclusive list btw), you can pretty much bank on the fact that you are doing something right:

You suck!
You are into yourself.
You're such a d1ck.
a$$hole
Jerk.
You're not my type.


A short list, but my mind is shot right now.

Of course, it always matters how you react to these things, and it also matters the tone with which it is said (of course). But you should be able to figure out how each of those things are said based on which one she said, and know if the tone is right or not.

Putting your body pic up is actually a pretty good move. Don't load up an album with it or it will come across wrong.

But one or two shirtless pics showing off your body? Girls eat that sh1t up.
 

Heart Break Kid

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If you have any good female friends, get them to put one or two up, tag you, and treat it as an inside joke. It works wonders. =)
 

LuisGarcia10

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The way I would do it is by showing pictures of you at the beach or whatever, then it doesn't make it look like you belong on one of those sleazy sites where people post nude pictures of themselves etc, but at the same time your body is on display in a natural enviroment.

I also agree with Vypros that "You're into yourself" is the kind of comment you want to hear from a woman. The kind of comments you need to worry about are stuff like, "you're so sweet, why do I never date guys like you?" That kind of thing normally means you're doing something wrong!
 

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Anyone know that great movie in which Brad Pitt says that self-improvement is self-masturbation?

Posting 'ripped' pictures of yourself on facebook is self-masturbation.

Believe it or not, girls don't care all that much about dudes who are obsessed with their own bodies.

I've been that gym rat before and I've drank many more juices (pvssy) when I wasn't self-masturbating in the gym. That's right, I got more women when I WASN'T in shape. Why? I was concentrating on things that actually mattered like my confidence and aspirations.

Girls care about two things
1. Confident men who don't need them
2. Rock hard big c0cks all up in them

Guys who masturbate to their own muscles are WAY down, if not off their list.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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