"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Posting Online Openers on here is a BAD IDEA.

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Hey guys, it's been great that there's some helpful online dating threads floating around...

HOWEVER, if you post the openers on here, chicks can easily google them. Just a thought.

I do have some great emails to hit chicks with that haven't responded to your first email, or looked at your profile and didn't send you an email.

Feel free to PM and I will pass them along. I just don't want all that information out there for the "enemy" to see.

When you send me a PM, please include the city where you reside. I am glad to help fellow Don Juans out, just don't want my material being used in my area. I'm really crushing it on match right now, and would like to keep it that way.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ed3qTlzIT_E
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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good thinking and pm'd ya
 

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Honestly many of the online openers people post come across as too elaborate and try-hard, and for those I suspect it's fairly obvious to the girl she's not the only one you've sent it to. The truly good openers are simple and tie in to her profile in some way.

But my point is, if she likes your pic and you write anything that doesn't suck you'll get her interest.
 

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Now I'm not knocking the advice given on here... Ninjas openers have gotten me laid so much that it's not even funny...

Mom, and wedding chapel are both killer. I just had to change the words of the opener a little bit so they don't get googled. I just have a hard time wanting to give all the openers away for all to use, in addition to the chicks seeing them on a site like this... Again, feel free to PM me with what city you live in, and i'll pass along the emails.

I also have a great "form letter" that is killer. Just add a question about her profile and your golden.
 

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BUMP... If anyone wants the emails feel free to send me a PM with your city of residence, and I will send the openers your way.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HedoRick said:
BUMP... If anyone wants the emails feel free to send me a PM with your city of residence, and I will send the openers your way.
I sent you a PM but you never replied.
 

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El Payaso... I just sent the emails to you. I do not check PM's every night because I am on lots of dates. And the rest of ya'll hang tight. I check my PM's every couple of days and will get them out when I get the chance.
 

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Definitely agree with you ESPI.

Is there anyway to post up the openers without them being searchable by google??

This material I have is amazing. I've got over 50 emails in my match inbox... Honestly can't keep up with it.
 
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