"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nighthawk

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I have a pic in my profile, here's another of me looking grumpier.


And check out my portfolio at http://www.danavenell.com if you like.

*edit by diablo: NO DISCUSSION, POST YOUR PICTURE ONLY!
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wyldfire

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Someone keeps insisting that I must be a disgusting old hag who no one would have sex with...so I have added my picture to my profile.

Click my name and you can see just how ugly and disgusting a hag I really am, lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heart Break Kid

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A lot of people ask exactly what I look like. Here's a pic from our school performance.

http://img301.imageshack.us/my.php?image=kashvb0.jpg

Guess which one I am. The other is my very best friend. :) (Left is correct)
I used to be pretty ugly. Gym, dermatologist, home remedies for acne scars and some help with my style changed that! =)

If anyone wants to see more pics/wants me to critique their style just msg. My cuz is a cosmosometing so I could ask her too.

PS: these are from last thursday
 
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Bible_Belt

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Apparently, the resolution on my gf's video recorder sucks, but here's me getting whooped at NAGA last month, I'm the guy without a shirt:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9kFxu1rfw8

and then losing again to the same guy in the Gi tournament later that day, although giving him a better fight this time, especially after getting kneed in the nose. I'm in the white gi.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCucuGla59w

My opponent was very good, a previous naga champ, and has been doing jiu-jitsu probably three times as long as me, so I did well to last as long as I did.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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