"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ENIGMA16

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Last night I ended up pregaming at my house then going over to this one bar close to my house where my friend was dj'ing. We met up with my friend's girlfriend and one of her friends (so there were 4 of us). We were originally going to go to like 4 parties/bars after this place and was only going to stay there for a little bit, but we ended up being there for midnight.

Anyways, this girl is pretty damn cute and my buddy and her gf aren't around anymore. Earlier in the night she wasn't showing me much attention, nor was I showing her much. I was drunk and just went up to her and we started dancing, made out at midnight for a while.

The four of us went back to my house after midnight to crack a champagne bottle. We ended up finishing the bottle and just saying fvck it and not going out. Buddy and his girlfriend slept in my living room, girl came to my bed.

Too drunk to fvck but had some fun, was planning on morning sex but we got rushed by buddy's girlfriend who worked in the morning and we woke up late. Not a big deal, got her number and she's into me so next time I won't overdo it on the alcohol.

It's really weird, the last couple girls I've had success with I haven't even tried gaming at all, I kind of just go for it and they're down haha.

Anyone else have any success on New Years?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vice

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Remember that single women are looking for someone the most near New Years/Valentines Day.
 

Bryce556

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well best new years i've ever had!

I planned something with this girl 'ive had as a FB recently, (she knows i have other plates diden't tell her its implied). Got tickets for a club and a hotel reservation all walking distance. She paid for everything and my drinks that night, i just had to get tickets :D.

first off i thought it was gonna be real sausage fest but my friend knew a female bartender at the place and i gained confidence by her saying i was the best looking guy their, other were better looking looking but poorly dressed and bad body language. so even though the female number was low to begin with most guys were just wall flowers.

The plan was for us both to pick up another girl (my friend is somewhat bi) so we found a cute girl and were griding with her. they kept shoving all other guys away except me, got other guys pissed, had a 3 way make out at new years then for a while after :). chick was grabbing my **** and stuff through my jeans with my FB encouraging it ;)

in all i made out with 4 hotties in all and my friend made out with 2 girls. Couldn't find any girls wanting to come back to our hotel with us, first girl had to work the next day but would have been into it but left right after new years, she had hands up mine and my friends shirt. So just went back to hotel at 3 am and banged my FB.

i was drunk by the end so i totally forget about any numbers but had a good time, got alotta looks, been doing well lately.
 

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went to a NYE party with my friend. I wasn't invited but he said it would be cool if i tagged along. we get to this girls house and everyone's been drinking a bit (so had i) and im just walking around saying my hellos.

The girl hosting the party was very flirty. I gave her a hug, then had a conversation while maintaining eye contact and getting some kino in by flirty touches on the waist and arms etc.. I wound up doing this in front of her date of the night (had no idea at the time, kinda felt like a **** when someone told me later). I got her number. Thinking about hitting her up sometime later this week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Titan

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Ahh, best NYE so far- even if i have just turned 17.
I was supposed to be going out with the family, but a girl I know insisted I come to her party, so ended up there. Im a massively flirty guy at heart and so flirted (negged, kino'd etc) with practically everyone there..

I ended up with one girl trying to get with me all night (which ok, happened a few times, even when I kept telling her to stop). I fingered two other girls at the same time in a bed whilst getting a handjob, then getting a bj off one of them. To top it all off I ended up waking up with another girl (who turned out to be engaged)... I don't think my night could have gone better :woo:

(Except I got a black eye from being hit in the face with a slipper :eek: )
 
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