"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Post your "night approaches" and I'll do them

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As most of you know, I work a lot so I don't have a lof of daygame time(although I will be doing more soon, hopefully)
However Post your night approaches openers/ideas and I'll do them

I'm Clark Kent baby

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


(sorry Elstud but pickashu sucks!!!)

*I won't do opinion openers guys, sorry but that **** is lame as fcuk to me

SHOUTOUT TO INCOG AND BATMAN FOR THE INPSIRITATION, JUST HAVING FUN GUYS, *IN AUSTIN POWER VOICE* "YEAH BABY!!".......

:rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Aright, "I find you fvcking sexy and i'm going to get to know you"
 

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Take your SLR and offer two of the hottest girls you can find a "private photo shoot" at your house. I will expect hi-res pics posted tomorrow.
 

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Duffdog said:
Take your SLR and offer two of the hottest girls you can find a "private photo shoot" at your house. I will expect hi-res pics posted tomorrow.

SLR?

ROFLLLLLLLLLL, Imma try Duff, I wish u would post more pics as well, you one of the reasons why I started doing these "picture field reports"
 

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Oh...oops. I thought that you had bought a professional digital camera or SLR for short and were using it in clubs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ: "Hey, how much does an elephant weigh?"
HB: "Uh...idk."
DJ : "Enough to break the ice. Hey, my name's coolf1r3.:D"
 

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Hey solo and duff i want to pick up a decent camera for under $200, any reccomendations. It would be great if it was pretty compact, but im not pick y in that price range.

As for the original post if your going to approach a girl direct is there that much difference in the way you can do it? It think its pretty much your hot lets **** type of openers. Anyhow you should try some Austin
Powers im curious to see how that would work. I looked up some of his quotes and you could say "Hey baby my name is solo I won't bite... hard."

But then again i dont know im very inexperienced in night game
 

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coolf1r3 said:
DJ: "Hey, how much does an elephant weigh?"
HB: "Uh...idk."
DJ : "Enough to break the ice. Hey, my name's coolf1r3.:D"

actually I've done that one before (two months ago) and I got blown out,


oh well, Ill try it again, @ Duff, I wish man, if u can hook me up trust me, Ill hook you up with eyecandy for years :D
 

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I Can't Wait

Pathgen said:
Hey solo and duff i want to pick up a decent camera for under $200, any reccomendations. It would be great if it was pretty compact, but im not pick y in that price range.

As for the original post if your going to approach a girl direct is there that much difference in the way you can do it? It think its pretty much your hot lets **** type of openers. Anyhow you should try some Austin
Powers im curious to see how that would work. I looked up some of his quotes and you could say "Hey baby my name is solo I won't bite... hard."

But then again i dont know im very inexperienced in night game

Path I actually found my cam on amazon, its great except the lighitning sucks, hence all my club pics look like im in some sort of dark basement, it doesnt help that I'm blacker then midnight

I would check consumer reports/wal-markt/best buy for ratings on digital cam's there is this one website but I forgot the name of it

Tigersdirect.com also has some good sites

Ill try some Austin powers crap, tminus 60 mintues before I am in the field........:D

p.s. I like ur siggy
 

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i'm far from the "know it all" when it comes to women but i DO know that any woman worth your time will see right through some cheesy pickup line, or attempt at one. you also run the riks of her being a total airhead and not understanding what you meant and you deffinatley dont want to have to sit there and explain the damn thing to her. just walk up to a girl you want to meet, smile and stick out your hand and say "hey my name's ****, what's yours?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i'm far from the "know it all" when it comes to women but i DO know that any woman worth your time will see right through some cheesy pickup line, or attempt at one. you also run the riks of her being a total airhead and not understanding what you meant and you deffinatley dont want to have to sit there and explain the damn thing to her. just walk up to a girl you want to meet, smile and stick out your hand and say "hey my name's ****, what's yours?"
Thats fine but then you have to lead that conversation somewhere else. The point of openers are not to use cheesy lines allthough my Austin Powers is a bit cheesy i have to give you that. The point is to do more than the average person who approaches a HB.

If you open with "hey my name's ****, what's yours?" then lead into hows the weather or stupid non sexual **** then it will stay there until you make it sexual. By starting off direct i think you have more of an advantage because if she does by into your frame then you already are on the right road.
 

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Robert28 said:
i'm far from the "know it all" when it comes to women but i DO know that any woman worth your time will see right through some cheesy pickup line, or attempt at one. you also run the riks of her being a total airhead and not understanding what you meant and you deffinatley dont want to have to sit there and explain the damn thing to her. just walk up to a girl you want to meet, smile and stick out your hand and say "hey my name's ****, what's yours?"


THis is all for fun, expermintation, you gotta have fun with the interaction.....
 

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ok well i guess my approach isnt the most popular one, and why i'm on here in the first place.haha try this "you have the kind of legs i like, feet on one end and p***y on the other", make sure you are standing way back though so she cant slap you.haha
 

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Good lord. Seriously? How about just going out and looking for eye contact and walking up and saying hi to those who are giving you strong eye contact. Then come back and post a field report about that. Cut that PUA BS of running up with "openers" its weak.
 

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Warrior74 said:
How about just going out and looking for eye contact and walking up and saying hi to those who are giving you strong eye contact
Thats an opener. I don't buy into the pua stuff anymore i beleive in natural game. However, you still have to open no matter the type of game. If he wants to do someting different or fun and run a few experiemnts to see what works best for him i think he should. Everyone is different.

Also, im interested to hear what do you do if no woman gives you strong eye contact?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmmm you said you were not a pua but your asking for pua routines so let me bless ya with the most powerful pua routine ever spoke, wrote or read:


Ok when you walk into a club make sure your open your eyes and watch.

Notice all of the women that you like.

Now since you actually are a pua that means you run up in women's faces yelling scripts and shyt at em without any IOW's or IOB's or IOI's or whatever you guys call it.

So here comes the most powerful pick up opener you will ever use:


Walk up to a girl and take a deep breath.


Pull it deep into your belly.


Then grab her attention and hold out your hand and say:





HELLO

Hello allows you to lower your voice into a bottom register vs HI which makes your voice go up to a gay register.

There you go.

That is all ya need son.

Don't tell anyone about this powerful super magical routine either man.

Let those other goobs keep asking who lies more david bowie or michael jackson.
 

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How about,

"You looked nice so I thought I'd say hello"

or if you're looking for fun

"Hi do you have a boyfriend?"
Most likely they'll be creeped out and say yes even if they don't
then, "What's his name"
This'll be funny because if they lied they'll struggle to think of a name
then, "OH MY GOD I HAVE A BOYFRIEND CALLED @ TOO! WHOA WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON, etc."


Another thing, I believe in natural game and stuff, but openers help newbies get rid of a bit of anxiety. Because openers are designed to get women to talk to you, but saying Hi/Hello or thinking ont he spot, needs the guy to be confident and have a strong frame, otherwise it won't work, so stop bashing openers. Everyone starts off with them and realises after a while that natural game is better, but it's easier to start off with an opener.
 

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Pathgen said:
Also, im interested to hear what do you do if no woman gives you strong eye contact?
I go and have fun with my friends. Or change venues. Or go home. I look for those who are choosing me.
 

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At a bar, try walking up to a chick and say to her "Hey, Do me a favor?" When she says okay, explain to her, "You're female, so you're probably going to get served before I am, so would you be a sweetheart and get me a [insert drink here]." Then just hand her the money. You've opened her up....now get to work.
 

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TheRealSupreme said:
hmmm you said you were not a pua but your asking for pua routines so let me bless ya with the most powerful pua routine ever spoke, wrote or read:


Ok when you walk into a club make sure your open your eyes and watch.

Notice all of the women that you like.

Now since you actually are a pua that means you run up in women's faces yelling scripts and shyt at em without any IOW's or IOB's or IOI's or whatever you guys call it.

So here comes the most powerful pick up opener you will ever use:


Walk up to a girl and take a deep breath.


Pull it deep into your belly.


Then grab her attention and hold out your hand and say:





HELLO

Hello allows you to lower your voice into a bottom register vs HI which makes your voice go up to a gay register.

There you go.

That is all ya need son.

Don't tell anyone about this powerful super magical routine either man.

Let those other goobs keep asking who lies more david bowie or michael jackson.

Preme' I'm not gonna go back and forth with you mang lol....

I ain't no PUA, lol, I have gone out with 3 SS members who can vouch that I'm far from a PUA this **** is just for fun and giggle old man

peace

Solo

p.s. LOL @ "goobs" I just had a flashback watching "The Mack" with Goldie and them, aww the golden era of pimping (70's)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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