"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FinalWay

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Not sure how this thread will go, but I feel I'm at a point in life where something is calling me but can't figure out what. Not just money either, but happiness. I'll start out by saying I do machining and programming and have been for the last 7 years. I've been thinking of other fields to work in etc but its hard when it's an employers market and not the employees. I graduated at 15 and was in college shortly after but had family issues plus couldn't make up my mind. I've had lots of other ideas for income and jobs but would like to hear from ya'll to get a different outlook!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Graduated at 15...wow
Job: Entrepreneur/Future CEO and founder of my own web development business
Idea for income (I assume this is for us): Currently working on my vision of the next social network. Release scheduled for Summer. We'll see how it goes as far as income is concerned.
 

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Selling fake ID's on Sosuave!
 

FinalWay

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Eph said:
Graduated at 15...wow
Job: Entrepreneur/Future CEO and founder of my own web development business
Idea for income (I assume this is for us): Currently working on my vision of the next social network. Release scheduled for Summer. We'll see how it goes as far as income is concerned.
Yah I'm proud but life changed some things lol...what made you get into the social networkin?
 

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If you have been doing machining and programming ( I assume automated CMC 3/5 D machining), why not leverage that to develop something you can sell to other machine shops? use it as a side project, than see if you can sell it?

Of course as someone who has a little experience in this, it might be a bit niche/ difficult. if you graduated at 15 though your most certainly smarter than I am and could possibly see something I don't..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eph

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FinalWay said:
Yah I'm proud but life changed some things lol...what made you get into the social networkin?
Nothing really I guess, I just started of thinking of things I wished Facebook (and I've noticed other social networks too) had, and eventually decided to "fix" the problem by creating the solution. Basic business thought process right there: Identify a problem, create a solution.

Only problem is profiting off something free.
 

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Eph said:
Nothing really I guess, I just started of thinking of things I wished Facebook (and I've noticed other social networks too) had, and eventually decided to "fix" the problem by creating the solution. Basic business thought process right there: Identify a problem, create a solution.

Only problem is profiting off something free.
profiting off something free.....advertisements, gifts , vouchers , bonus content
dude look at those scumbags in EA games....they got the right idea :crackup:
i mean they sell a game for 50 then charge an extra 60 for a patch which was supposed to be there in the first place.....
though they won't last longer if they keep up with their ****ty games :box:
 

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Many people fall into trapped ‘careers.’ I won’t say what’s my day job, but it has nothing to do with what I want. So now I’m now focusing on talents and passion by starting my own freelance graphic design & photography business.
 

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switch said:
profiting off something free.....advertisements, gifts , vouchers , bonus content
dude look at those scumbags in EA games....they got the right idea :crackup:
i mean they sell a game for 50 then charge an extra 60 for a patch which was supposed to be there in the first place.....
though they won't last longer if they keep up with their ****ty games :box:
lmao. That wouldn't really work for a social network. Ads are a given, but gifts vouchers and bonus content...lol. I have some ideas for profit in mind anyway, but like I said we'll see how far it goes income wise.

And 50? Hmm, you must be a PC gamer or you use a Wii lol :p
 

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Eph said:
Nothing really I guess, I just started of thinking of things I wished Facebook (and I've noticed other social networks too) had, and eventually decided to "fix" the problem by creating the solution. Basic business thought process right there: Identify a problem, create a solution.

Only problem is profiting off something free.
Good point...but I don't use a Facebook so idk lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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People are rarely these days doing what they love and making money off of it in America, that's just the harsh ****ing truth.

Even Muscians, and artist who are passionate about music have to deal with the bull**** politics behind getting your work out to the masses, be it dealing with record execs, agents, copy rights ect.


The Money is good, but I don't love what I do, I'm not going to lie to myself like that.

If I could make me a sandwich and have sex all day and get paid for it, then I would love my job.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
If I could make me a sandwich and have sex all day and get paid for it, then I would love my job.
There's always prostitution my friend. Or you could be a pornstar which is, you know, legal.
 

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Eph said:
There's always prostitution my friend. Or you could be a pornstar which is, you know, legal.
Majority of male pornstars had to do gay porn in order to step their first foot into the adult biz. Very, very rarely does a male pornstar start doing hetero porn right away.

Js.

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Scars said:
Majority of male pornstars had to do gay porn in order to step their first foot into the adult biz. Very, very rarely does a male pornstar start doing hetero porn right away.

Js.

-Scars
True, not to mention they don't get paid very well-in the beginning at least. Not much later either really
 

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Scars said:
Majority of male pornstars had to do gay porn in order to step their first foot into the adult biz. Very, very rarely does a male pornstar start doing hetero porn right away.

Js.

-Scars
Interesting, good thing he didn't say sex with who. lol jk
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's popular now, FaceBook? Do you know how many times a month people search how to crack fb password?

Create a program that attempts to crack fb and charge for it.
 

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backseatjuan said:
What's popular now, FaceBook? Do you know how many times a month people search how to crack fb password?

Create a program that attempts to crack fb and charge for it.
Wtf...that is a very crap long time way to make money.

How instead of a dumb idea like that, create a social app that integrates with Facebook.

Computer programming is where I see all the jobs headed, I want to continue studying it and see where it takes me
 

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Backseatjuan, my bro you are suggesting people do illegal things like 'create an app that breaks Facebook security' as a job. You're 32 years old. It's time to get real

I suggest reading The Millionaire Fastlane if you want to know how money works
 

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Deep Dish said:
Many people fall into trapped ‘careers.’ I won’t say what’s my day job, but it has nothing to do with what I want. So now I’m now focusing on talents and passion by starting my own freelance graphic design & photography business.
That's what's up!!! I wish you all the best.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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